Bec Syed

This has been for various things like petrol, rent, general living expenses, nothing of value.

My sister is not paying any of this money back.

I feel she should get a smaller portion of the will, but my mum doesn't think this is fair.

I'm not trying to be greedy, but would like it to be equal.

Help.

How do I approach this?

Any advice appreciated?

This is such a tough one.

Okay, well, I just want to say nothing of value.

living and basic needs, I would say are valuable.

And I don't know who the listener is, but bless, bless, bless.

Just know this all comes from a kind place.

But as that sibling who needs help all the time, and this is not – I totally understand.

I just – I feel like I would be like –

If I saw my siblings getting money and money and money and I'm like, man, I'm out here working and you're getting all this money, I would be annoyed too.

I just want you to know that genuinely I would be.

But we have to take things into consideration.

Maybe if you were in the same situation and you were in need as well and they didn't give you money, then you would be like, that's a very clear black and white side-by-side comparison of like, this is unfair.

But...

And I don't want to diminish or say like when someone has the capacity to work hard that they're like, oh, well, you can do it.