Becky G
๐ค SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
They come and they go.
I can't make life decisions based off of other people's emotions in my comment section.
I think when you are a person on a platform or of some type of celebrity and fame, you are a bit of like a mirror to other people sometimes.
And they think they're seeing you, but really what they're seeing is themselves.
And so maybe they've gone through something.
And that's why when a girl stands on her, I could never, I'm like, girl, from this point on, I could never.
Trust me when I say I just had to get there.
Like I said, their zero was that mine had to be learned, experienced, felt, processed and really like worked on with real professional intervention before I could make that decision.
And that was that's what was really, I guess, important to me when it came to the documentary and like talking about it.
I was, you know, some people were like, it's very unresolved.
Like, are they together?
And I was like, well, that's what it was.
It was three years ago and it was unresolved.
We didn't know what was, we were gonna, we were committed to working on it and we were committed to figuring it out because when you spend that much time with someone, it's not that you want to forgive and forget.
You almost have to remember.
You have to remember what you come from.
and the hurt that's been caused to know that you don't want to be capable of ever doing that to someone else ever again and i got to experience that and i did there were close people to me with enough i think discernment to know that people who don't know me don't should not have a say in what i do with my life um but there was people in my close circle who were protective of me of course who were just as hurt and upset about what happened but also
just as curious and also just as supportive of the figuring it out because if this was gonna end, it was gonna end amicably.
It was gonna end with clarity and with real resolution and with respect because that's what I deserve, you know?