Belle Burden

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818 appearances 5 recordings 4 series first heard Jan 2026 last heard 30 Apr

Belle Burden’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Recordings per month over the last 12 months — 5 in all, peaking in Apr 2026 with 3.

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I think that's right.

And what changed it for me is shifting the focus.

Because I wasn't going to... It was like trying to get blood from a stone.

I wasn't going to get it from him.

So I had to shift the focus to myself.

My stepmother is a family therapist and she uses this trick where you picture...

him and myself on a stage, and the spotlight's on him, and I have to move it in my brain from him to me.

Yes, I think it's hard for me to say that because I watched her lose my father and how horrible that was to be a widow.

But she's a therapist.

Yes.

She told me.

And she believes that it's worse because he is out there living a different life.

And I had to really look back at our love story and reevaluate it and feel that rejection, which is so painful.

But my children still have a father, and a lot of, you know, when there's death, people lose important people to them.

Yes, and your narrative can stay the same.

And a lot of shame, too.

A lot of shame.

I felt it so intensely.

I really felt so much shame as I reentered the community that I'm a part of there.

I felt like I had failed in keeping my husband interested in me, loving me.

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