Ben (Benjamin)
👤 PersonAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
But then you can get to a place where it is doing it for you.
Otherwise, you're just like living in mediocrity and you're going to build resentment.
And then two years later, it's going to bubble up and you're going to be like, where the fuck did that come from?
And it's like, well, I've been getting bad sex for the last two years.
That's where it came from.
But it's really small things.
Like I think that tackling, you're not going to change who a person is.
You should not try to change somebody either.
But little things you can change.
I'll give you the perfect example.
I'm a problem solver at my core.
You come to me with a problem.
I'm going to try actively to solve it.
Some people find that really helpful.
Some people find that really annoying.