Ben Hart

I've seen a little bit of that, right? You've seen a little bit more of a lighter pull on men just because of like their jobs per se and what they do. And maybe the testosterone is going down. All these things are playing a role. And, you know, hypergamy tends to be typically more real than not. And there is that. And that affects how women and men choose for sure.

That's a really hard balance. I'm not going to lie about that, right? Because guys don't have that same problem. So I have to acknowledge that first. Women tend to have that problem because they think of it as like a switch. I don't think of it as like a switch. I think of it as like you can... By the way, some of the most productive, successful women I know are...

That's a really hard balance. I'm not going to lie about that, right? Because guys don't have that same problem. So I have to acknowledge that first. Women tend to have that problem because they think of it as like a switch. I don't think of it as like a switch. I think of it as like you can... By the way, some of the most productive, successful women I know are...

That's a really hard balance. I'm not going to lie about that, right? Because guys don't have that same problem. So I have to acknowledge that first. Women tend to have that problem because they think of it as like a switch. I don't think of it as like a switch. I think of it as like you can... By the way, some of the most productive, successful women I know are...

highly actually more in their feminine because in my opinion i feel like the feminine controls the chessboard and they some people haven't really figured out how to use and they use it as like a competitive streak to like compete with men and then they want to like shut off the switch and that's difficult i think setting off that switch is hard to do and i don't think that's easy and i think about it very differently i think about you can be this way and you don't have to see a lot of girls will come in and say well he didn't make me feel like i could be feminine enough

highly actually more in their feminine because in my opinion i feel like the feminine controls the chessboard and they some people haven't really figured out how to use and they use it as like a competitive streak to like compete with men and then they want to like shut off the switch and that's difficult i think setting off that switch is hard to do and i don't think that's easy and i think about it very differently i think about you can be this way and you don't have to see a lot of girls will come in and say well he didn't make me feel like i could be feminine enough

highly actually more in their feminine because in my opinion i feel like the feminine controls the chessboard and they some people haven't really figured out how to use and they use it as like a competitive streak to like compete with men and then they want to like shut off the switch and that's difficult i think setting off that switch is hard to do and i don't think that's easy and i think about it very differently i think about you can be this way and you don't have to see a lot of girls will come in and say well he didn't make me feel like i could be feminine enough

And I said, well, why is it so conditional? Why is your femininity so conditional? If a guy said this to you, you'd laugh him out the room. Well, she didn't make me feel good enough to make me be my masculine. You'd be like, come on. And I understand that there's traits of masculinity that go into your job and everything else.

And I said, well, why is it so conditional? Why is your femininity so conditional? If a guy said this to you, you'd laugh him out the room. Well, she didn't make me feel good enough to make me be my masculine. You'd be like, come on. And I understand that there's traits of masculinity that go into your job and everything else.

And I said, well, why is it so conditional? Why is your femininity so conditional? If a guy said this to you, you'd laugh him out the room. Well, she didn't make me feel good enough to make me be my masculine. You'd be like, come on. And I understand that there's traits of masculinity that go into your job and everything else.

But you have to understand also, too, a lot of times you have that framework when you're meeting new guys. Some guys look right past you because of that, because of how hard you are on the outside and more like that. Some guys, the guys that most of the women actually looking at are going to look past them just because it doesn't it's not not the most attractive thing on a superficial.

But you have to understand also, too, a lot of times you have that framework when you're meeting new guys. Some guys look right past you because of that, because of how hard you are on the outside and more like that. Some guys, the guys that most of the women actually looking at are going to look past them just because it doesn't it's not not the most attractive thing on a superficial.

But you have to understand also, too, a lot of times you have that framework when you're meeting new guys. Some guys look right past you because of that, because of how hard you are on the outside and more like that. Some guys, the guys that most of the women actually looking at are going to look past them just because it doesn't it's not not the most attractive thing on a superficial.

And now if they get to know them, fair enough. But you can't assume that somebody has to break those walls down so quick right off the bat.

And now if they get to know them, fair enough. But you can't assume that somebody has to break those walls down so quick right off the bat.

And now if they get to know them, fair enough. But you can't assume that somebody has to break those walls down so quick right off the bat.

yeah and i'm not gonna lie like i'm not a femininity coach so i don't like teach them all these details about how to be more feminine i think that would be a little bit out of my league if i'm being honest so i kind of i feel like i kind of know my limits like even people call into my stream like i have a live stream that i do on tick tock monday through thursday and they're they'll go they'll start going into like childhood stuff i'm like listen i'm not a therapist i'm not gonna lie to you i'm gonna stop this right here because

yeah and i'm not gonna lie like i'm not a femininity coach so i don't like teach them all these details about how to be more feminine i think that would be a little bit out of my league if i'm being honest so i kind of i feel like i kind of know my limits like even people call into my stream like i have a live stream that i do on tick tock monday through thursday and they're they'll go they'll start going into like childhood stuff i'm like listen i'm not a therapist i'm not gonna lie to you i'm gonna stop this right here because

yeah and i'm not gonna lie like i'm not a femininity coach so i don't like teach them all these details about how to be more feminine i think that would be a little bit out of my league if i'm being honest so i kind of i feel like i kind of know my limits like even people call into my stream like i have a live stream that i do on tick tock monday through thursday and they're they'll go they'll start going into like childhood stuff i'm like listen i'm not a therapist i'm not gonna lie to you i'm gonna stop this right here because

One, I'm not qualified. Two, I don't talk about relationships. And three, I don't talk about marriage, specifically the early stage dating. And I think that's important because the early stage is like, how do you start to attract the kind of guy you want? And I think a lot of the qualities I was talking about being just a little bit more