Ben Hart
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Two months. So he starts to pull back. So he's pulling back, like not talking to her for a week. All right. And he was talking to her for more than that before. Yeah. So something changed.
Two months. So he starts to pull back. So he's pulling back, like not talking to her for a week. All right. And he was talking to her for more than that before. Yeah. So something changed.
Two months. So he starts to pull back. So he's pulling back, like not talking to her for a week. All right. And he was talking to her for more than that before. Yeah. So something changed.
Right. That just means he's losing interest. It means he's lost interest or he's losing interest or he found some... Most of the time, that's typically the case. When a guy starts pulling back and he had an energy at first and that energy changed, for whatever reason, it doesn't necessarily have to be her even.
Right. That just means he's losing interest. It means he's lost interest or he's losing interest or he found some... Most of the time, that's typically the case. When a guy starts pulling back and he had an energy at first and that energy changed, for whatever reason, it doesn't necessarily have to be her even.
Right. That just means he's losing interest. It means he's lost interest or he's losing interest or he found some... Most of the time, that's typically the case. When a guy starts pulling back and he had an energy at first and that energy changed, for whatever reason, it doesn't necessarily have to be her even.
It could just be like, well, I just don't see myself getting down on my knee for this girl. And maybe...
It could just be like, well, I just don't see myself getting down on my knee for this girl. And maybe...
It could just be like, well, I just don't see myself getting down on my knee for this girl. And maybe...
there's a lot of factors i might he's not gonna slam the door shut a lot of guys keep the crack open but they're not gonna like hey this isn't working out it happens but it's rare it happens but it's just not as common whereas a lot of guys will keep the door open and sometimes yeah they may find their attention going elsewhere maybe there's another girl that's taking up their time and energy and they're like okay well i don't i just don't feel over her as much but i'm not gonna be like i don't like you because x y and z
there's a lot of factors i might he's not gonna slam the door shut a lot of guys keep the crack open but they're not gonna like hey this isn't working out it happens but it's rare it happens but it's just not as common whereas a lot of guys will keep the door open and sometimes yeah they may find their attention going elsewhere maybe there's another girl that's taking up their time and energy and they're like okay well i don't i just don't feel over her as much but i'm not gonna be like i don't like you because x y and z
there's a lot of factors i might he's not gonna slam the door shut a lot of guys keep the crack open but they're not gonna like hey this isn't working out it happens but it's rare it happens but it's just not as common whereas a lot of guys will keep the door open and sometimes yeah they may find their attention going elsewhere maybe there's another girl that's taking up their time and energy and they're like okay well i don't i just don't feel over her as much but i'm not gonna be like i don't like you because x y and z
Yeah. The second one is very valid. I agree with you that he could have gotten really close, but not necessarily freaked out of success, just freaked out of the fact that he like didn't see, he probably didn't see a future. And he's like, I don't want to get any closer because it feels like, but also feels like maybe I should take a step back here. That's possible.
Yeah. The second one is very valid. I agree with you that he could have gotten really close, but not necessarily freaked out of success, just freaked out of the fact that he like didn't see, he probably didn't see a future. And he's like, I don't want to get any closer because it feels like, but also feels like maybe I should take a step back here. That's possible.
Yeah. The second one is very valid. I agree with you that he could have gotten really close, but not necessarily freaked out of success, just freaked out of the fact that he like didn't see, he probably didn't see a future. And he's like, I don't want to get any closer because it feels like, but also feels like maybe I should take a step back here. That's possible.
The first one, would you say again, the first one that, uh,
The first one, would you say again, the first one that, uh,
The first one, would you say again, the first one that, uh,
Yeah, and listen, by the way, I don't disagree with that. You know, here's the thing, right? Like that could always be the case. And depending on the phase of life, depending if he has kids, like these things matter, right? Like you're talking about a guy who's like living in the city at like 32. You're talking about a guy that's like has a house and he's 55 or 60 and he has kids.
Yeah, and listen, by the way, I don't disagree with that. You know, here's the thing, right? Like that could always be the case. And depending on the phase of life, depending if he has kids, like these things matter, right? Like you're talking about a guy who's like living in the city at like 32. You're talking about a guy that's like has a house and he's 55 or 60 and he has kids.