Ben Hart

oh yeah big time like you know for the level of anxiety that a lot of women that i speak to have their fear of communicating exceeds that it's like there's just high level of fear associated with saying something that's going to scare them off i'm like what do you think he's gonna get scared off from your communication if he gets scared off from your communication he doesn't like you like that like we have to kind of make decisions kind of in some capacity right and like how could you even move forward without saying to yourself well at least i tried

oh yeah big time like you know for the level of anxiety that a lot of women that i speak to have their fear of communicating exceeds that it's like there's just high level of fear associated with saying something that's going to scare them off i'm like what do you think he's gonna get scared off from your communication if he gets scared off from your communication he doesn't like you like that like we have to kind of make decisions kind of in some capacity right and like how could you even move forward without saying to yourself well at least i tried

I don't know. I think that's with everybody, guys too. If they have an inability to communicate something and they're not communicating, everyone would just be like, you're soft. What is your issue?

I don't know. I think that's with everybody, guys too. If they have an inability to communicate something and they're not communicating, everyone would just be like, you're soft. What is your issue?

I don't know. I think that's with everybody, guys too. If they have an inability to communicate something and they're not communicating, everyone would just be like, you're soft. What is your issue?

A hundred percent. And this is kind of like in your expertise as well, I'm sure, especially with the confidence building, you know, but a lot of it is that story. And I always go back to that because this is a typical topic that I always hear is like, well, that means this and that means this. We can all draw these assumptions.

A hundred percent. And this is kind of like in your expertise as well, I'm sure, especially with the confidence building, you know, but a lot of it is that story. And I always go back to that because this is a typical topic that I always hear is like, well, that means this and that means this. We can all draw these assumptions.

A hundred percent. And this is kind of like in your expertise as well, I'm sure, especially with the confidence building, you know, but a lot of it is that story. And I always go back to that because this is a typical topic that I always hear is like, well, that means this and that means this. We can all draw these assumptions.

Well, there's a story that's attached to the reason why you're not doing something. And I think you need to tell a different story. You need to say, well, maybe, you know what, maybe I'm going to go and be my best self and I'm going to communicate thoroughly. And if somebody doesn't want to communicate that thoroughly, then maybe that's not for me.

Well, there's a story that's attached to the reason why you're not doing something. And I think you need to tell a different story. You need to say, well, maybe, you know what, maybe I'm going to go and be my best self and I'm going to communicate thoroughly. And if somebody doesn't want to communicate that thoroughly, then maybe that's not for me.

Well, there's a story that's attached to the reason why you're not doing something. And I think you need to tell a different story. You need to say, well, maybe, you know what, maybe I'm going to go and be my best self and I'm going to communicate thoroughly. And if somebody doesn't want to communicate that thoroughly, then maybe that's not for me.

There's a more empowering way to deal with this as opposed to just being so fearful all the time. You can't kind of scare a guy that likes you away because you communicate. I don't see that ever happening.

There's a more empowering way to deal with this as opposed to just being so fearful all the time. You can't kind of scare a guy that likes you away because you communicate. I don't see that ever happening.

There's a more empowering way to deal with this as opposed to just being so fearful all the time. You can't kind of scare a guy that likes you away because you communicate. I don't see that ever happening.

if you've just gotten your heart broken, that's one thing, then maybe you need to take a little bit off and like, okay, I need to regain yourself and refocus a little bit.

if you've just gotten your heart broken, that's one thing, then maybe you need to take a little bit off and like, okay, I need to regain yourself and refocus a little bit.

if you've just gotten your heart broken, that's one thing, then maybe you need to take a little bit off and like, okay, I need to regain yourself and refocus a little bit.

But like, I'm not a big proponent of like taking a lot of time off because a lot of people get really engulfed in routines and they get very comfortable in their own routines and they find it very difficult to now actually do something that's in their favor. That's going to be their benefit, even though they know it's going to be in the benefit.

But like, I'm not a big proponent of like taking a lot of time off because a lot of people get really engulfed in routines and they get very comfortable in their own routines and they find it very difficult to now actually do something that's in their favor. That's going to be their benefit, even though they know it's going to be in the benefit.

But like, I'm not a big proponent of like taking a lot of time off because a lot of people get really engulfed in routines and they get very comfortable in their own routines and they find it very difficult to now actually do something that's in their favor. That's going to be their benefit, even though they know it's going to be in the benefit.