Ben Hart
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So I always kind of say this reference for men, it's most of the time, it's about their struggle is getting to date one. And for women, their struggle is typically past date one or three. And they're trying, because they've already kind of chosen a guy that has, you know, they've
So I always kind of say this reference for men, it's most of the time, it's about their struggle is getting to date one. And for women, their struggle is typically past date one or three. And they're trying, because they've already kind of chosen a guy that has, you know, they've
So I always kind of say this reference for men, it's most of the time, it's about their struggle is getting to date one. And for women, their struggle is typically past date one or three. And they're trying, because they've already kind of chosen a guy that has, you know, they've
let's say they've cut 45 out of the 50 that have come at them, approached them, but the five that they've chosen, they start to get a little more invested in when they start to go out with them. So two specific struggles.
let's say they've cut 45 out of the 50 that have come at them, approached them, but the five that they've chosen, they start to get a little more invested in when they start to go out with them. So two specific struggles.
let's say they've cut 45 out of the 50 that have come at them, approached them, but the five that they've chosen, they start to get a little more invested in when they start to go out with them. So two specific struggles.
Number one is navigating after date one, which is like how to maintain, how to not get so attached to an outcome, how to stop telling stories about what's going on and what's not going on. Whereas I think guys have a little bit less of that as a problem.
Number one is navigating after date one, which is like how to maintain, how to not get so attached to an outcome, how to stop telling stories about what's going on and what's not going on. Whereas I think guys have a little bit less of that as a problem.
Number one is navigating after date one, which is like how to maintain, how to not get so attached to an outcome, how to stop telling stories about what's going on and what's not going on. Whereas I think guys have a little bit less of that as a problem.
And number two, what I see being the bigger issue is sometimes a lot of women can get in their own way in terms of being approachable or open for the kind of guy they want. So those are the two things. It's like being approachable and open to the kind of guy you want, kind of like low-key choosing.
And number two, what I see being the bigger issue is sometimes a lot of women can get in their own way in terms of being approachable or open for the kind of guy they want. So those are the two things. It's like being approachable and open to the kind of guy you want, kind of like low-key choosing.
And number two, what I see being the bigger issue is sometimes a lot of women can get in their own way in terms of being approachable or open for the kind of guy they want. So those are the two things. It's like being approachable and open to the kind of guy you want, kind of like low-key choosing.
And then the other part is kind of like keeping and maintaining early stage up and not driving yourself crazy.
And then the other part is kind of like keeping and maintaining early stage up and not driving yourself crazy.
And then the other part is kind of like keeping and maintaining early stage up and not driving yourself crazy.
feedback in terms of like, what do people think of them?
feedback in terms of like, what do people think of them?
feedback in terms of like, what do people think of them?
Well, number one, I think that they get very confused because they're trying to figure out how does the guy feel? What does this mean when he does this? What happens when I don't talk to him for a week? The reality is there's two things that qualify a guy showing interest that means he's interested. Number one, does he take you out?
Well, number one, I think that they get very confused because they're trying to figure out how does the guy feel? What does this mean when he does this? What happens when I don't talk to him for a week? The reality is there's two things that qualify a guy showing interest that means he's interested. Number one, does he take you out?