Ben Hart

Well, number one, I think that they get very confused because they're trying to figure out how does the guy feel? What does this mean when he does this? What happens when I don't talk to him for a week? The reality is there's two things that qualify a guy showing interest that means he's interested. Number one, does he take you out?

And if he doesn't take you out, it's really irrelevant at that point. And number two, is there some realm of does it get to a place where he's showing committed behaviors and it leads to some kind of commitment? Because most of them I talk to are always looking for some sort of commitment. They don't want to just be out here and dilly-dallying.

And if he doesn't take you out, it's really irrelevant at that point. And number two, is there some realm of does it get to a place where he's showing committed behaviors and it leads to some kind of commitment? Because most of them I talk to are always looking for some sort of commitment. They don't want to just be out here and dilly-dallying.

And if he doesn't take you out, it's really irrelevant at that point. And number two, is there some realm of does it get to a place where he's showing committed behaviors and it leads to some kind of commitment? Because most of them I talk to are always looking for some sort of commitment. They don't want to just be out here and dilly-dallying.

and have a good time because then at some point they actually do get a little bit more attached to this guy and they actually don't want to date four or five others they're looking for one dude that they really like that's one number two is one of the things i always emphasize is you know i talk about past proximity eye contact smile those are the three kind of like buckets that i put in for like sending choosing signals stop being so face down because a lot of guys are not going to approach women who are not approachable now sure there's a select few of women that are going to get approached no matter what they do

and have a good time because then at some point they actually do get a little bit more attached to this guy and they actually don't want to date four or five others they're looking for one dude that they really like that's one number two is one of the things i always emphasize is you know i talk about past proximity eye contact smile those are the three kind of like buckets that i put in for like sending choosing signals stop being so face down because a lot of guys are not going to approach women who are not approachable now sure there's a select few of women that are going to get approached no matter what they do

and have a good time because then at some point they actually do get a little bit more attached to this guy and they actually don't want to date four or five others they're looking for one dude that they really like that's one number two is one of the things i always emphasize is you know i talk about past proximity eye contact smile those are the three kind of like buckets that i put in for like sending choosing signals stop being so face down because a lot of guys are not going to approach women who are not approachable now sure there's a select few of women that are going to get approached no matter what they do

But that's not a majority of women. And people have to understand that maybe you don't live in that category. Maybe you have to actually be a little more approachable, friendly, make some eye contact, crack a smile here and there, get around him. That's why I call it past proximity, eye contact, smile.

But that's not a majority of women. And people have to understand that maybe you don't live in that category. Maybe you have to actually be a little more approachable, friendly, make some eye contact, crack a smile here and there, get around him. That's why I call it past proximity, eye contact, smile.

But that's not a majority of women. And people have to understand that maybe you don't live in that category. Maybe you have to actually be a little more approachable, friendly, make some eye contact, crack a smile here and there, get around him. That's why I call it past proximity, eye contact, smile.

So those are the kinds of things I typically tend to, the intricacies and the nuances of being approachable. And then like the framework of how to maintain the interest post date one. And sometimes, yes, I advise getting a little flirty, but also understand that like, Don't get so attached to a specific outcome, like trying to close a deal. Like, we're not closing a deal here.

So those are the kinds of things I typically tend to, the intricacies and the nuances of being approachable. And then like the framework of how to maintain the interest post date one. And sometimes, yes, I advise getting a little flirty, but also understand that like, Don't get so attached to a specific outcome, like trying to close a deal. Like, we're not closing a deal here.

So those are the kinds of things I typically tend to, the intricacies and the nuances of being approachable. And then like the framework of how to maintain the interest post date one. And sometimes, yes, I advise getting a little flirty, but also understand that like, Don't get so attached to a specific outcome, like trying to close a deal. Like, we're not closing a deal here.

You're vetting him, too. And sometimes people forget that. They forget that once they choose, they think, oh, I kind of like this guy. But you're vetting him, too, along the way. You should be seeing his behaviors as they unfold, as he's doing for you.

You're vetting him, too. And sometimes people forget that. They forget that once they choose, they think, oh, I kind of like this guy. But you're vetting him, too, along the way. You should be seeing his behaviors as they unfold, as he's doing for you.

You're vetting him, too. And sometimes people forget that. They forget that once they choose, they think, oh, I kind of like this guy. But you're vetting him, too, along the way. You should be seeing his behaviors as they unfold, as he's doing for you.

Yeah, and I think that's an important question to ask. And, you know, it's also an important question to ask is when you consider, like, okay, I want X. I want X type of guy. What does X type of guy want? And I'm going to tell you, not a lot of women ask that question. That I could definitely tell you. They don't ask the question of the kind of guy I want, what is he looking for?

Yeah, and I think that's an important question to ask. And, you know, it's also an important question to ask is when you consider, like, okay, I want X. I want X type of guy. What does X type of guy want? And I'm going to tell you, not a lot of women ask that question. That I could definitely tell you. They don't ask the question of the kind of guy I want, what is he looking for?

Yeah, and I think that's an important question to ask. And, you know, it's also an important question to ask is when you consider, like, okay, I want X. I want X type of guy. What does X type of guy want? And I'm going to tell you, not a lot of women ask that question. That I could definitely tell you. They don't ask the question of the kind of guy I want, what is he looking for?

And I think it's... Listen, I think that a lot of women that I speak to, a lot that are on my channel, it's difficult because when you're in a place where you've never really had to like understand men, you know, because a lot of men kind of have to understand the basics of women just to get to first date. Which is like, well, what's going to turn on? Why did I just turn her off?