Ben Hart

And I think it's... Listen, I think that a lot of women that I speak to, a lot that are on my channel, it's difficult because when you're in a place where you've never really had to like understand men, you know, because a lot of men kind of have to understand the basics of women just to get to first date. Which is like, well, what's going to turn on? Why did I just turn her off?

And I think it's... Listen, I think that a lot of women that I speak to, a lot that are on my channel, it's difficult because when you're in a place where you've never really had to like understand men, you know, because a lot of men kind of have to understand the basics of women just to get to first date. Which is like, well, what's going to turn on? Why did I just turn her off?

Like, why did she turn me down there? Like, what was the deal? There's a part of them that have to be that. And when you've never really had to understand men, when you choose the guy, all of a sudden you have to understand their behaviors a little bit more and make some good decisions. And sometimes that can be difficult for people. So I try to make it fun.

Like, why did she turn me down there? Like, what was the deal? There's a part of them that have to be that. And when you've never really had to understand men, when you choose the guy, all of a sudden you have to understand their behaviors a little bit more and make some good decisions. And sometimes that can be difficult for people. So I try to make it fun.

Like, why did she turn me down there? Like, what was the deal? There's a part of them that have to be that. And when you've never really had to understand men, when you choose the guy, all of a sudden you have to understand their behaviors a little bit more and make some good decisions. And sometimes that can be difficult for people. So I try to make it fun.

But my method is essentially it's all about, you know, I'm very big on accountability. So I do put the mirror up to a lot of people. And I'm not a big back rubber person. And not to say that I couldn't be, but on my one-on-ones, I definitely am. I'm understanding and empathetic. But in general, you kind of have to look in the mirror.

But my method is essentially it's all about, you know, I'm very big on accountability. So I do put the mirror up to a lot of people. And I'm not a big back rubber person. And not to say that I couldn't be, but on my one-on-ones, I definitely am. I'm understanding and empathetic. But in general, you kind of have to look in the mirror.

But my method is essentially it's all about, you know, I'm very big on accountability. So I do put the mirror up to a lot of people. And I'm not a big back rubber person. And not to say that I couldn't be, but on my one-on-ones, I definitely am. I'm understanding and empathetic. But in general, you kind of have to look in the mirror.

If you keep attracting F-boy, I mean, there's a common denominator here. And you can't just be thinking about it's everybody else's problem. And I think that's very empowering. And I think that that can kind of get... the message can get a little diluted if you're not considering it actually an empowering thing that you actually have more control than you think.

If you keep attracting F-boy, I mean, there's a common denominator here. And you can't just be thinking about it's everybody else's problem. And I think that's very empowering. And I think that that can kind of get... the message can get a little diluted if you're not considering it actually an empowering thing that you actually have more control than you think.

If you keep attracting F-boy, I mean, there's a common denominator here. And you can't just be thinking about it's everybody else's problem. And I think that's very empowering. And I think that that can kind of get... the message can get a little diluted if you're not considering it actually an empowering thing that you actually have more control than you think.

Totally. And like, you know, I don't my point is I also don't want to see people get caught up in this like victimhood of like, you know, for example, there's plenty of them. But like I give you one like, you know, there's OK, a guy was I was in a situationship with a guy for six months. I don't know what to do. I'm like, why would you be in a situation for six months?

Totally. And like, you know, I don't my point is I also don't want to see people get caught up in this like victimhood of like, you know, for example, there's plenty of them. But like I give you one like, you know, there's OK, a guy was I was in a situationship with a guy for six months. I don't know what to do. I'm like, why would you be in a situation for six months?

Totally. And like, you know, I don't my point is I also don't want to see people get caught up in this like victimhood of like, you know, for example, there's plenty of them. But like I give you one like, you know, there's OK, a guy was I was in a situationship with a guy for six months. I don't know what to do. I'm like, why would you be in a situation for six months?

You know, like that right there is a basic level of like framework of accountability. Like you don't do six month situationships with a dude when you're looking for commitment as a whole doesn't work. The fact that you actually had control whether this goes to a situationship or not. It's not just on the man because he led you down a situationship. You kind of stayed.

You know, like that right there is a basic level of like framework of accountability. Like you don't do six month situationships with a dude when you're looking for commitment as a whole doesn't work. The fact that you actually had control whether this goes to a situationship or not. It's not just on the man because he led you down a situationship. You kind of stayed.

You know, like that right there is a basic level of like framework of accountability. Like you don't do six month situationships with a dude when you're looking for commitment as a whole doesn't work. The fact that you actually had control whether this goes to a situationship or not. It's not just on the man because he led you down a situationship. You kind of stayed.

A situationship is basically anything besides relationship. And if we're getting very general about that, that's a very general framework, right? Like it's anything besides relationship. You know, you hang out a lot, no commitment. You do friendly stuff together. It's, you know, maybe you sleep together or whatever. But there's all these other things where there's no commitment.

A situationship is basically anything besides relationship. And if we're getting very general about that, that's a very general framework, right? Like it's anything besides relationship. You know, you hang out a lot, no commitment. You do friendly stuff together. It's, you know, maybe you sleep together or whatever. But there's all these other things where there's no commitment.

A situationship is basically anything besides relationship. And if we're getting very general about that, that's a very general framework, right? Like it's anything besides relationship. You know, you hang out a lot, no commitment. You do friendly stuff together. It's, you know, maybe you sleep together or whatever. But there's all these other things where there's no commitment.