Ben Mandelker

I think I will say that if someone is like crying on Instagram, you know, over someone who passed, you know, if this is their way of eulogizing them, like that's fine to me.

But but I think that people's behaviors with social media and funerals are really strange.

I'm not going to lie.

Like, that's just not where I'm trying to do a selfie or not try to be like, here's my outfit of the day or or like, look at us.

Look at us.

I'm also like not trying to like advertise how sad I am.

Meaning that like, like, look, look at me mourning.

I'm like, it's one thing to get on social media and be expressed sadness for a person and pay tribute.

But like, here's a picture of me standing in a suit at the cemetery.

I'm like, why are you doing that?

My wish is still the same.

It's pretty much all of what you said.

Plus, I don't need to see your baby next to a little chalkboard that says how many weeks old they are.

Sorry.

I just don't need to see it.

I care about the one year.

I care about the 18 months.

I care about annual things.

Here's where I will be okay with it.

If you do take that picture, because you want to chart the growth, take a bunch of the pictures, take like 20 of them and make a carousel.