Ben Mandelker

I just...

I wanted her to, I really like your take for what her reaction would have been a really satisfying reaction, which is like, okay, that's fine.

I don't take this seriously, but I also don't appreciate how careless you were with my feelings just now.

So bye.

Because that's ultimately what it was is that like, yeah, it's, they may not be in a deep relationship, but like, this is, she's like the most vulnerable she's going to be.

And she's in such a fragile place and he doesn't really know how she's going to be.

She doesn't know how she's going to be the one year anniversary of,

the death of the love of her life.

And he's going to do commit sort of like a big betrayal to her, which is already emotionally vulnerable.

And you just don't know how that's going to go.

And as it happens, it wasn't too bad.

It was, it was more or less fine, but he doesn't know that he doesn't know that at all.

And it's just so reckless of him.

And it's so inconsiderate and so self-interested.

And I think it's just obnoxious.

And that's what I wanted her to be upset about.

Was that like, wow, you didn't, you didn't think about,

How something like this could affect me coming back when I come back to the boat in my most vulnerable state I've ever been in in my life.

This is not the only shit friend thing you did to any of these people on this boat, by the way.

And Kathy, Kathy is sitting there next to them.