Ben Owen

The line gets blurred. And understandably so, but it's still there. And it's still a massive impediment to vets that are trying to get sober. They've got to shred that or shed the victim mentality. And it's hard. It's hard to tell somebody that. We're into trafficking survivors too. The same mentality and the same incentivization to maintain victimhood gets pushed on them.

The line gets blurred. And understandably so, but it's still there. And it's still a massive impediment to vets that are trying to get sober. They've got to shred that or shed the victim mentality. And it's hard. It's hard to tell somebody that. We're into trafficking survivors too. The same mentality and the same incentivization to maintain victimhood gets pushed on them.

The line gets blurred. And understandably so, but it's still there. And it's still a massive impediment to vets that are trying to get sober. They've got to shred that or shed the victim mentality. And it's hard. It's hard to tell somebody that. We're into trafficking survivors too. The same mentality and the same incentivization to maintain victimhood gets pushed on them.

Yep. And your identity becomes wrapped up in that. You lose sight of who you really are.

Yep. And your identity becomes wrapped up in that. You lose sight of who you really are.

Yep. And your identity becomes wrapped up in that. You lose sight of who you really are.

When that role is over, you lose your entire sense of who you are.

When that role is over, you lose your entire sense of who you are.

When that role is over, you lose your entire sense of who you are.

100%.

100%.

100%.

Well, that's who you thought you were.

Well, that's who you thought you were.

Well, that's who you thought you were.

But we do it to ourselves, though. We do it to ourselves. It's a self-imposed prison. Yeah. And once you realize that, you're free to redefine, you know, to identify, to find that thing that gives you purpose. How do you say his last name? Fetes? Chris Fetes? Fetes. Fetes. Chris Fetes. You and him had a great conversation about that.

But we do it to ourselves, though. We do it to ourselves. It's a self-imposed prison. Yeah. And once you realize that, you're free to redefine, you know, to identify, to find that thing that gives you purpose. How do you say his last name? Fetes? Chris Fetes? Fetes. Fetes. Chris Fetes. You and him had a great conversation about that.

But we do it to ourselves, though. We do it to ourselves. It's a self-imposed prison. Yeah. And once you realize that, you're free to redefine, you know, to identify, to find that thing that gives you purpose. How do you say his last name? Fetes? Chris Fetes? Fetes. Fetes. Chris Fetes. You and him had a great conversation about that.

about finding purpose in life after any of those roles that used to identify who we are. And that's really what it comes down to. And I've noticed that to be especially true for vets. So while I just had a rant about trying to get vets sober, I've got something positive to add to that.

about finding purpose in life after any of those roles that used to identify who we are. And that's really what it comes down to. And I've noticed that to be especially true for vets. So while I just had a rant about trying to get vets sober, I've got something positive to add to that.