Bianca (Caller)

I'm doing all right.

Well, yeah, let's go straight to the point, I guess.

So I got married two months ago.

And yeah, so we haven't been married very long.

And my husband has problems with alcohol, which I knew he had some issues with.

But about a month and he told me that he's been lying to me.

about it, basically our whole relationship.

So I am now trying to figure out like, how do I set boundaries that are healthy for me without being controlling?

Cause I can't control him and without like letting myself be a doormat, um, essentially, but it's not like, you know, it's, it's like a once a week thing and he's not violent or anything, but he knows that he can't

Stop, you know.

He started in outpatient rehab actually already.

Yeah.

Okay.

Yeah, absolutely.

But he's unwilling to talk about it with anybody in his life.

Okay.

Because he's embarrassed about it.

Well, I worry about that because he's had problems with other drugs, which he's quit completely.

But it seems to me like just another substitute.

From one drug to the next.