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Big Sean

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976 total appearances

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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

Yeah, and that's what we're here to do, is to serve, really, in every aspect. This always comes down to being of service. And anything we put out there, in any interview, in any book, in any song, is really of service to whatever the moment it relates to. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, you're right, saying the right thing to the wrong. And the thing is, you're kind of the only one who can dictate

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

Yeah, and that's what we're here to do, is to serve, really, in every aspect. This always comes down to being of service. And anything we put out there, in any interview, in any book, in any song, is really of service to whatever the moment it relates to. Do you know what I mean? Yeah, you're right, saying the right thing to the wrong. And the thing is, you're kind of the only one who can dictate

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

You know, right and wrong is so opinionated depending on who you talk to.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

You know, right and wrong is so opinionated depending on who you talk to.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

You know, there are a lot of people who think that, you know, anything that we could think is wrong, somebody could argue how it's right. You know, even down to black and white, somebody can argue that this text that says the exact same thing means this thing or this means that thing. You know, so I think it's important to come from a place of understanding.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

You know, there are a lot of people who think that, you know, anything that we could think is wrong, somebody could argue how it's right. You know, even down to black and white, somebody can argue that this text that says the exact same thing means this thing or this means that thing. You know, so I think it's important to come from a place of understanding.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

And this leads to something else I want to talk about, because just because you understand something doesn't mean you have to accept it. Just because you understand it. And that's something that I had to learn the hard way. I thought that I was being this spiritual guy by if I get into a disagreement with someone, understanding where they come from.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

And this leads to something else I want to talk about, because just because you understand something doesn't mean you have to accept it. Just because you understand it. And that's something that I had to learn the hard way. I thought that I was being this spiritual guy by if I get into a disagreement with someone, understanding where they come from.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

And then ultimately turns to me not respecting myself because I'll understand where they're coming from and be like, okay, I get it. But the fact that I still get it, it doesn't mean that I can't express myself and I'm not valid. So I want to make sure that everyone knows that because I think that that was something that I learned is to set boundaries. And that's like that big B word.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

And then ultimately turns to me not respecting myself because I'll understand where they're coming from and be like, okay, I get it. But the fact that I still get it, it doesn't mean that I can't express myself and I'm not valid. So I want to make sure that everyone knows that because I think that that was something that I learned is to set boundaries. And that's like that big B word.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

That's like the biggest B word there is as boundaries that I've learned this year. And like that has really, really, really changed a lot of dynamics with people. And it changed a lot of, it's really created a lot of happiness in my life.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

That's like the biggest B word there is as boundaries that I've learned this year. And like that has really, really, really changed a lot of dynamics with people. And it changed a lot of, it's really created a lot of happiness in my life.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

I think I was trying to be a hero in every situation I was in. I'm such an empathetic person, so I love to... I really can feel when people are going through something. Even when the world is going through something, it's like I kind of really have to really protect myself energetically because I take on a lot of people's problems. You know what I'm saying? I can't help it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

I think I was trying to be a hero in every situation I was in. I'm such an empathetic person, so I love to... I really can feel when people are going through something. Even when the world is going through something, it's like I kind of really have to really protect myself energetically because I take on a lot of people's problems. You know what I'm saying? I can't help it.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

And it's not a good... I don't look at it as a bad thing. I just look at it as how I am. Do I wish sometimes that I could just cut things off? Yeah, but it taught me that I can. I just have to set boundaries on what I can and can't accept. And this year... Yeah, there are a lot of things that I was tired of feeling uncomfortable in certain situations.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

And it's not a good... I don't look at it as a bad thing. I just look at it as how I am. Do I wish sometimes that I could just cut things off? Yeah, but it taught me that I can. I just have to set boundaries on what I can and can't accept. And this year... Yeah, there are a lot of things that I was tired of feeling uncomfortable in certain situations.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

I was tired of letting people walk all over me. And just because I understood or I get it, I'm not respecting myself. And I didn't realize that I wasn't respecting myself in that. You know, there are times where, yeah, I need to... I can't go to this thing. I can't do this. Or, you know what? I can't go here. I can't go... To Dubai and do this show because I have to be here for my son.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

I was tired of letting people walk all over me. And just because I understood or I get it, I'm not respecting myself. And I didn't realize that I wasn't respecting myself in that. You know, there are times where, yeah, I need to... I can't go to this thing. I can't do this. Or, you know what? I can't go here. I can't go... To Dubai and do this show because I have to be here for my son.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

I got to take my son trick or treating. You know, I had to set some of those boundaries that may have cost me one thing, but I gained another. And one of the most important things I gained back from setting boundaries is the trust in myself. You know, the confidence that I feel like I have been building up for so long.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Big Sean: 5 Ways to Get Unstuck From Where You Are Now (Simple Strategies to Eliminate Endless Hours of Work)

I got to take my son trick or treating. You know, I had to set some of those boundaries that may have cost me one thing, but I gained another. And one of the most important things I gained back from setting boundaries is the trust in myself. You know, the confidence that I feel like I have been building up for so long.