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Bill Eddy

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

I know I shouldn't do this, but... And then finally they learn to change their behavior. Well, some people are discovering their borderline and finding other people online and reinforcing their borderline view of the world. There's evil people and good people.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

I know I shouldn't do this, but... And then finally they learn to change their behavior. Well, some people are discovering their borderline and finding other people online and reinforcing their borderline view of the world. There's evil people and good people.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And occasionally they write reviews of my books and say how awful a person I am because I talk about personality disorders, even though I say don't identify anybody And I believe personality disorders in most cases could be helped if they're open to that. So I think there's some degree of, say, female people with that personality finding each other and reinforcing that behavior.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And occasionally they write reviews of my books and say how awful a person I am because I talk about personality disorders, even though I say don't identify anybody And I believe personality disorders in most cases could be helped if they're open to that. So I think there's some degree of, say, female people with that personality finding each other and reinforcing that behavior.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And occasionally they write reviews of my books and say how awful a person I am because I talk about personality disorders, even though I say don't identify anybody And I believe personality disorders in most cases could be helped if they're open to that. So I think there's some degree of, say, female people with that personality finding each other and reinforcing that behavior.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

But what I read was, and I cited in my book in the, I'm trying to remember, I don't remember which chapter, but that some researcher at a university said, look for their social media connections. And you'll find that there was a reinforcement of this behavior rather than people saying, hey, you can't do that. You've got to cut it out.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

But what I read was, and I cited in my book in the, I'm trying to remember, I don't remember which chapter, but that some researcher at a university said, look for their social media connections. And you'll find that there was a reinforcement of this behavior rather than people saying, hey, you can't do that. You've got to cut it out.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

But what I read was, and I cited in my book in the, I'm trying to remember, I don't remember which chapter, but that some researcher at a university said, look for their social media connections. And you'll find that there was a reinforcement of this behavior rather than people saying, hey, you can't do that. You've got to cut it out.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

There's something I want to fit in here. And that is that we need to understand that people with personality disorders didn't choose to have them. And so I have a lot of compassion for people like that. And so I have a lot of students over the years, and they write reflective journals. And occasionally they put in their journal, I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

There's something I want to fit in here. And that is that we need to understand that people with personality disorders didn't choose to have them. And so I have a lot of compassion for people like that. And so I have a lot of students over the years, and they write reflective journals. And occasionally they put in their journal, I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

There's something I want to fit in here. And that is that we need to understand that people with personality disorders didn't choose to have them. And so I have a lot of compassion for people like that. And so I have a lot of students over the years, and they write reflective journals. And occasionally they put in their journal, I was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And I remember this one woman said, so when you talked about borderline personality disorder, it was a little uncomfortable for me, but I found it helpful. And she was actually one of the better students in the class. And so she had that level of awareness, but she was still working on herself to manage the emotional roller coaster and such.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And I remember this one woman said, so when you talked about borderline personality disorder, it was a little uncomfortable for me, but I found it helpful. And she was actually one of the better students in the class. And so she had that level of awareness, but she was still working on herself to manage the emotional roller coaster and such.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And I remember this one woman said, so when you talked about borderline personality disorder, it was a little uncomfortable for me, but I found it helpful. And she was actually one of the better students in the class. And so she had that level of awareness, but she was still working on herself to manage the emotional roller coaster and such.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And so what's important to me is some people with borderline personality disorder may be angry with me because I talk about it, because they're early stage with this. But other people say, thank you, Bill, that was helpful. And so there's kind of a range there. But I also want to say three basic reasons I think people develop personality disorders. The first is genetic tendencies.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And so what's important to me is some people with borderline personality disorder may be angry with me because I talk about it, because they're early stage with this. But other people say, thank you, Bill, that was helpful. And so there's kind of a range there. But I also want to say three basic reasons I think people develop personality disorders. The first is genetic tendencies.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And so what's important to me is some people with borderline personality disorder may be angry with me because I talk about it, because they're early stage with this. But other people say, thank you, Bill, that was helpful. And so there's kind of a range there. But I also want to say three basic reasons I think people develop personality disorders. The first is genetic tendencies.

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And various researchers say like 20 to 80 percent may be genetic. the genetic tendency depending on the person, that early childhood, first five years of life, maybe attachment difficulties may be a driving factor, but also cultural environment. Some people say the researcher in San Diego wrote the narcissism epidemic, and she says from her research that the decade you're born in

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And various researchers say like 20 to 80 percent may be genetic. the genetic tendency depending on the person, that early childhood, first five years of life, maybe attachment difficulties may be a driving factor, but also cultural environment. Some people say the researcher in San Diego wrote the narcissism epidemic, and she says from her research that the decade you're born in

Huberman Lab
How to Deal With High Conflict People | Bill Eddy

And various researchers say like 20 to 80 percent may be genetic. the genetic tendency depending on the person, that early childhood, first five years of life, maybe attachment difficulties may be a driving factor, but also cultural environment. Some people say the researcher in San Diego wrote the narcissism epidemic, and she says from her research that the decade you're born in