Bo Eason

That is a hundred percent. And just a quick tip for everybody. Usually your best story, is the one you don't want to tell. Isn't that funny to say? There's a lot of stories that we want to tell, like about, oh, I won the championship. Look at my trophy. I'm sure Tom Brady loves telling that story. Look, I won seven Super Bowls. I want to know the lowest moment Tom Brady's ever had.

Because that's the one that has the most connective tissue to it. There's a reason why a guy wins seven Super Bowls. It is pain. It is not from joy. It is not from fun. It is not from any of that. It is from pain that he felt as a kid when they cut him. When they said, you're no good. You're not a good player.

Because that's the one that has the most connective tissue to it. There's a reason why a guy wins seven Super Bowls. It is pain. It is not from joy. It is not from fun. It is not from any of that. It is from pain that he felt as a kid when they cut him. When they said, you're no good. You're not a good player.

Because that's the one that has the most connective tissue to it. There's a reason why a guy wins seven Super Bowls. It is pain. It is not from joy. It is not from fun. It is not from any of that. It is from pain that he felt as a kid when they cut him. When they said, you're no good. You're not a good player.

you can't play here same story we all have that's the story we're interested in tom brady because can you really connect to another human being based on a trophy you cannot you can only connect through pain it is the most intimate It is the most, this vulnerability that John's talking about, that pain makes you vulnerable. Well, that is the greatest connective tissue that human beings have.

you can't play here same story we all have that's the story we're interested in tom brady because can you really connect to another human being based on a trophy you cannot you can only connect through pain it is the most intimate It is the most, this vulnerability that John's talking about, that pain makes you vulnerable. Well, that is the greatest connective tissue that human beings have.

you can't play here same story we all have that's the story we're interested in tom brady because can you really connect to another human being based on a trophy you cannot you can only connect through pain it is the most intimate It is the most, this vulnerability that John's talking about, that pain makes you vulnerable. Well, that is the greatest connective tissue that human beings have.

It's embarrassment. It is shame. It is, I'm reluctant to tell that, to share that. That is the story for you. You got to know this.

It's embarrassment. It is shame. It is, I'm reluctant to tell that, to share that. That is the story for you. You got to know this.

It's embarrassment. It is shame. It is, I'm reluctant to tell that, to share that. That is the story for you. You got to know this.

do the think everybody do this we're going to do a 10 second exercise the first one's five seconds think of your greatest moment of your life five seconds think of it right now greatest moment of your life proudest moment of your life five seconds go everybody got it good forget about that one it's not a good story it sucks as a story no one can connect to that

do the think everybody do this we're going to do a 10 second exercise the first one's five seconds think of your greatest moment of your life five seconds think of it right now greatest moment of your life proudest moment of your life five seconds go everybody got it good forget about that one it's not a good story it sucks as a story no one can connect to that

do the think everybody do this we're going to do a 10 second exercise the first one's five seconds think of your greatest moment of your life five seconds think of it right now greatest moment of your life proudest moment of your life five seconds go everybody got it good forget about that one it's not a good story it sucks as a story no one can connect to that

Here's another five-second exercise. Think of your lowest moment, the one where you looked around and there were no answers for you. Five seconds, go. That's your story. That's the one. That's the one that connects you to human beings. The other one doesn't work. It doesn't work. That would be like this. They start the movie of climbing Mount Everest.

Here's another five-second exercise. Think of your lowest moment, the one where you looked around and there were no answers for you. Five seconds, go. That's your story. That's the one. That's the one that connects you to human beings. The other one doesn't work. It doesn't work. That would be like this. They start the movie of climbing Mount Everest.

Here's another five-second exercise. Think of your lowest moment, the one where you looked around and there were no answers for you. Five seconds, go. That's your story. That's the one. That's the one that connects you to human beings. The other one doesn't work. It doesn't work. That would be like this. They start the movie of climbing Mount Everest.

Say we're making a movie of climbing Mount Everest. Do we start on the top of the mountain? Does the movie begin with us on top of Mount Everest planting the flag? waving with our successes. No, it does not start there, does it? No story starts there. The movie starts us looking up at the top of the summit and saying, there's no way in hell we can make it. And there's dead bodies all around us.

Say we're making a movie of climbing Mount Everest. Do we start on the top of the mountain? Does the movie begin with us on top of Mount Everest planting the flag? waving with our successes. No, it does not start there, does it? No story starts there. The movie starts us looking up at the top of the summit and saying, there's no way in hell we can make it. And there's dead bodies all around us.

Say we're making a movie of climbing Mount Everest. Do we start on the top of the mountain? Does the movie begin with us on top of Mount Everest planting the flag? waving with our successes. No, it does not start there, does it? No story starts there. The movie starts us looking up at the top of the summit and saying, there's no way in hell we can make it. And there's dead bodies all around us.

That's where you start a story. No one's interested in your success. They're only interested in the climb. That's it. That's what connects us to human beings. That's why you've got to start at your lowest moment.