Bree

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

But I feel so guilty asking because he's already doing so much.

But I feel so guilty asking because he's already doing so much.

No.

No.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Hi, John. How are you?

Hi, John. How are you?

How are you? I'm doing all right. I'm doing all right. So I'm feeling a little nervous, honestly. I didn't think I would feel that way.

How are you? I'm doing all right. I'm doing all right. So I'm feeling a little nervous, honestly. I didn't think I would feel that way.

Is it awful of me that like, you know, say it's scheduled, right? And I get home and I'm like, it's on the calendar or whatever. And then I get home. I'm like, you know what? I changed my mind. It was a really bad day. Is that awful?

Is it awful of me that like, you know, say it's scheduled, right? And I get home and I'm like, it's on the calendar or whatever. And then I get home. I'm like, you know what? I changed my mind. It was a really bad day. Is that awful?

I hear you say that all the time and I'm like, that's a good idea and we've never done that.

I hear you say that all the time and I'm like, that's a good idea and we've never done that.

Oh my gosh, yes.

Oh my gosh, yes.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Thank you.

Thank you.

I'm trying to convince myself.

I'm trying to convince myself.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

Okay.

Okay.

It's me, not you. No, I think it's both of us. All right, good. It's all you.

It's me, not you. No, I think it's both of us. All right, good. It's all you.

Okay.

Okay.

Okay.

Okay.

How can I help? I'll take it. So my question is, how can my husband and I Resolve our conflict over sex frequency with our busy life.

How can I help? I'll take it. So my question is, how can my husband and I Resolve our conflict over sex frequency with our busy life.

Okay, so I have a two and a three-year-old.

Okay, so I have a two and a three-year-old.

A constant bomb, a constant bomb. I mean, it's a beautiful bomb, but... But it's still a bomb. It's still a bomb. All right, you have a three and a two-year-old.

A constant bomb, a constant bomb. I mean, it's a beautiful bomb, but... But it's still a bomb. It's still a bomb. All right, you have a three and a two-year-old.

Yes, I'm a first-grade teacher.

Yes, I'm a first-grade teacher.

It's a lot of little people, yeah. And it's wonderful, and my husband's wonderful. So it's not necessarily a, quote, relationship issue, necessarily. It's just a... It's a time and I guess like a time management thing and a I'm overwhelmed, touched out, feelings out. I don't even know how to express it. And I want my husband, but there's moments that I don't want anything, if that makes any sense.

It's a lot of little people, yeah. And it's wonderful, and my husband's wonderful. So it's not necessarily a, quote, relationship issue, necessarily. It's just a... It's a time and I guess like a time management thing and a I'm overwhelmed, touched out, feelings out. I don't even know how to express it. And I want my husband, but there's moments that I don't want anything, if that makes any sense.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, we listen to you a lot. So to be perfectly frank, so this, me even calling into you, it all stemmed from, we were arguing about this issue, right? And my husband was like, just call Dr. John. And I didn't, he was joking, right? And I, so what I did is what I called you, right? Yeah. And I told him, I said, Hey, I'm going to talk to Dr. John. He's like, are you serious? I'm like, yes, I am.

Well, we listen to you a lot. So to be perfectly frank, so this, me even calling into you, it all stemmed from, we were arguing about this issue, right? And my husband was like, just call Dr. John. And I didn't, he was joking, right? And I, so what I did is what I called you, right? Yeah. And I told him, I said, Hey, I'm going to talk to Dr. John. He's like, are you serious? I'm like, yes, I am.

And so here we are.

And so here we are.

Um, here we are. Yeah. And so we've tried the whole scheduling it out and he doesn't like that because it feels inorganic and it's not sexy or anything. Right. Um, He feels guilty when he tries to initiate it because he knows that I'm tired or that he doesn't want to get rejected, okay? There's times that maybe I want sex, but I don't want it to be a wham, bam, thank you, ma'am type of situation.

Um, here we are. Yeah. And so we've tried the whole scheduling it out and he doesn't like that because it feels inorganic and it's not sexy or anything. Right. Um, He feels guilty when he tries to initiate it because he knows that I'm tired or that he doesn't want to get rejected, okay? There's times that maybe I want sex, but I don't want it to be a wham, bam, thank you, ma'am type of situation.

I want love, you know?

I want love, you know?

Um, but then there's also times where I'm like, Hey, let's, it's gotta be quick. I'm tired. Cause I want to please him. So we can't come to this solution. I mean, and the poor man, I mean, he wants it every day. Yeah. And I don't, I tell him like in this season that we're in, I don't, I don't have the capacity to give that. Yeah. Would it shock you? And I feel wrong for saying that.

Um, but then there's also times where I'm like, Hey, let's, it's gotta be quick. I'm tired. Cause I want to please him. So we can't come to this solution. I mean, and the poor man, I mean, he wants it every day. Yeah. And I don't, I tell him like in this season that we're in, I don't, I don't have the capacity to give that. Yeah. Would it shock you? And I feel wrong for saying that.

I smell so good.

I smell so good.

Okay.

Okay.

How can my husband and I resolve our conflict over sex frequency with our busy life? We were arguing about this issue, right? And my husband was like, just call Dr. John.

How can my husband and I resolve our conflict over sex frequency with our busy life? We were arguing about this issue, right? And my husband was like, just call Dr. John.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, yeah. I mean, even just yesterday, we know while I'm making dinner, he just looks at me and he tells me, you know, I miss you. That's it.

Well, yeah. I mean, even just yesterday, we know while I'm making dinner, he just looks at me and he tells me, you know, I miss you. That's it.

It's... And then it's the mom guilt of like, okay, yeah, I miss you too, but... I only have this part of my kids for so long and then they grow up, you know?

It's... And then it's the mom guilt of like, okay, yeah, I miss you too, but... I only have this part of my kids for so long and then they grow up, you know?

How do I say that? How do you?

How do I say that? How do you?

Oh, yeah. One of them has already and it's great.

Oh, yeah. One of them has already and it's great.

Foreign concept. Exactly.

Foreign concept. Exactly.

Can I add something? And maybe you can help me there.

Can I add something? And maybe you can help me there.

He, he doesn't have friends.

He, he doesn't have friends.

Yeah.

Yeah.

He doesn't have family.

He doesn't have family.

It's so hard. Like, being his age, or I guess you can say our age. It's a nightmare.

It's so hard. Like, being his age, or I guess you can say our age. It's a nightmare.

I'm 37. He's 45. Yeah, it's a nightmare.

I'm 37. He's 45. Yeah, it's a nightmare.

And I'm not saying that's your family.

And I'm not saying that's your family.

He's a freaking rock star at home. Like he like, he does, I have to tell him to not do, you know what I mean? Like I have to tell, I have to force him to sit down. Um, I, I don't know.

He's a freaking rock star at home. Like he like, he does, I have to tell him to not do, you know what I mean? Like I have to tell, I have to force him to sit down. Um, I, I don't know.

Oh man. Yeah, I guess so.

Oh man. Yeah, I guess so.

I don't know. I don't know.

I don't know. I don't know.

I feel like I'm failing him because this seems to be such an important part of his universe. You know? I feel like there's not peace in my extended family and I feel like I'm the peacemaker for everywhere and I'm not able to make that happen. But that's a whole nother can of worms.

I feel like I'm failing him because this seems to be such an important part of his universe. You know? I feel like there's not peace in my extended family and I feel like I'm the peacemaker for everywhere and I'm not able to make that happen. But that's a whole nother can of worms.

Yeah.

Yeah.

But I feel so guilty asking because he's already doing so much.

No.

Mm-hmm.

Hi, John. How are you?

How are you? I'm doing all right. I'm doing all right. So I'm feeling a little nervous, honestly. I didn't think I would feel that way.

Is it awful of me that like, you know, say it's scheduled, right? And I get home and I'm like, it's on the calendar or whatever. And then I get home. I'm like, you know what? I changed my mind. It was a really bad day. Is that awful?

I hear you say that all the time and I'm like, that's a good idea and we've never done that.

Oh my gosh, yes.

Mm-hmm.

Yeah.

Thank you.

I'm trying to convince myself.

Mm-hmm.

Okay.

It's me, not you. No, I think it's both of us. All right, good. It's all you.

Okay.

Okay.

How can I help? I'll take it. So my question is, how can my husband and I Resolve our conflict over sex frequency with our busy life.

Okay, so I have a two and a three-year-old.

A constant bomb, a constant bomb. I mean, it's a beautiful bomb, but... But it's still a bomb. It's still a bomb. All right, you have a three and a two-year-old.

Yes, I'm a first-grade teacher.

It's a lot of little people, yeah. And it's wonderful, and my husband's wonderful. So it's not necessarily a, quote, relationship issue, necessarily. It's just a... It's a time and I guess like a time management thing and a I'm overwhelmed, touched out, feelings out. I don't even know how to express it. And I want my husband, but there's moments that I don't want anything, if that makes any sense.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, we listen to you a lot. So to be perfectly frank, so this, me even calling into you, it all stemmed from, we were arguing about this issue, right? And my husband was like, just call Dr. John. And I didn't, he was joking, right? And I, so what I did is what I called you, right? Yeah. And I told him, I said, Hey, I'm going to talk to Dr. John. He's like, are you serious? I'm like, yes, I am.

And so here we are.

Um, here we are. Yeah. And so we've tried the whole scheduling it out and he doesn't like that because it feels inorganic and it's not sexy or anything. Right. Um, He feels guilty when he tries to initiate it because he knows that I'm tired or that he doesn't want to get rejected, okay? There's times that maybe I want sex, but I don't want it to be a wham, bam, thank you, ma'am type of situation.

I want love, you know?

Um, but then there's also times where I'm like, Hey, let's, it's gotta be quick. I'm tired. Cause I want to please him. So we can't come to this solution. I mean, and the poor man, I mean, he wants it every day. Yeah. And I don't, I tell him like in this season that we're in, I don't, I don't have the capacity to give that. Yeah. Would it shock you? And I feel wrong for saying that.

I smell so good.

Okay.

How can my husband and I resolve our conflict over sex frequency with our busy life? We were arguing about this issue, right? And my husband was like, just call Dr. John.

Yeah.

Well, yeah. I mean, even just yesterday, we know while I'm making dinner, he just looks at me and he tells me, you know, I miss you. That's it.

It's... And then it's the mom guilt of like, okay, yeah, I miss you too, but... I only have this part of my kids for so long and then they grow up, you know?

How do I say that? How do you?

Oh, yeah. One of them has already and it's great.

Foreign concept. Exactly.

Can I add something? And maybe you can help me there.

He, he doesn't have friends.

Yeah.

He doesn't have family.

It's so hard. Like, being his age, or I guess you can say our age. It's a nightmare.

I'm 37. He's 45. Yeah, it's a nightmare.

And I'm not saying that's your family.

He's a freaking rock star at home. Like he like, he does, I have to tell him to not do, you know what I mean? Like I have to tell, I have to force him to sit down. Um, I, I don't know.

Oh man. Yeah, I guess so.

I don't know. I don't know.

I feel like I'm failing him because this seems to be such an important part of his universe. You know? I feel like there's not peace in my extended family and I feel like I'm the peacemaker for everywhere and I'm not able to make that happen. But that's a whole nother can of worms.

Hey, I'm Bree. I'm from Tennessee. My sister's over there. Hi, Bree's sister. We saw residential construction to middle-aged women who like to spend their husband's money.

Hey, I'm Bree. I'm from Tennessee. My sister's over there. Hi, Bree's sister. We saw residential construction to middle-aged women who like to spend their husband's money.

Yeah. We've done $100K in revenue in one year. We would like to get to $3 million, ideally in two years. I think it's pretty realistic and easy in construction. And I think what's stopping us is scaling and potentially niching down. So after these workshops, that's what we feel like is the right thing. And we wanted to get your feedback on potentially niching down to bathrooms.

Yeah. We've done $100K in revenue in one year. We would like to get to $3 million, ideally in two years. I think it's pretty realistic and easy in construction. And I think what's stopping us is scaling and potentially niching down. So after these workshops, that's what we feel like is the right thing. And we wanted to get your feedback on potentially niching down to bathrooms.

There's a two-week turnaround. And it's a pretty standard... Can I already tell you I like it? You do? You like it?

There's a two-week turnaround. And it's a pretty standard... Can I already tell you I like it? You do? You like it?

Yeah, 42%. Yeah?

Yeah, 42%. Yeah?

Two weeks. And it's easy to sell? I think we can get it a little bit lower.

Two weeks. And it's easy to sell? I think we can get it a little bit lower.

So do you think if we're saying no to the larger projects, which is still holding a 42% margin, we can do more of those, but they take longer time, you still think it's a better option to do the quicker thing?

So do you think if we're saying no to the larger projects, which is still holding a 42% margin, we can do more of those, but they take longer time, you still think it's a better option to do the quicker thing?

So for a custom shower, it might be 10K, it might be $4,200. A full bathroom in Tennessee is probably about $14,000.

So for a custom shower, it might be 10K, it might be $4,200. A full bathroom in Tennessee is probably about $14,000.

Our max was five a month.

Our max was five a month.

I think we could fulfill double right now with our crew, and then we'd have to build fulfillment. Yeah, that was like a short, I mean, we really,

I think we could fulfill double right now with our crew, and then we'd have to build fulfillment. Yeah, that was like a short, I mean, we really,

Okay.

Okay.

Hey, I'm Bree. I'm from Tennessee. My sister's over there. Hi, Bree's sister. We saw residential construction to middle-aged women who like to spend their husband's money.

Yeah. We've done $100K in revenue in one year. We would like to get to $3 million, ideally in two years. I think it's pretty realistic and easy in construction. And I think what's stopping us is scaling and potentially niching down. So after these workshops, that's what we feel like is the right thing. And we wanted to get your feedback on potentially niching down to bathrooms.

There's a two-week turnaround. And it's a pretty standard... Can I already tell you I like it? You do? You like it?

Yeah, 42%. Yeah?

Two weeks. And it's easy to sell? I think we can get it a little bit lower.

So do you think if we're saying no to the larger projects, which is still holding a 42% margin, we can do more of those, but they take longer time, you still think it's a better option to do the quicker thing?

So for a custom shower, it might be 10K, it might be $4,200. A full bathroom in Tennessee is probably about $14,000.

Our max was five a month.

I think we could fulfill double right now with our crew, and then we'd have to build fulfillment. Yeah, that was like a short, I mean, we really,

Okay.