Brendon Burchard

Like I said, there's alignment you have to get to because you have an assignment. And you can't see the assignment. Lewis, I've known him a long time. A decade ago, if we were talking, you wouldn't see this as the assignment yet, right? He had to go through things and discover things and keep, Lewis has become more of his best self.

Like I said, there's alignment you have to get to because you have an assignment. And you can't see the assignment. Lewis, I've known him a long time. A decade ago, if we were talking, you wouldn't see this as the assignment yet, right? He had to go through things and discover things and keep, Lewis has become more of his best self.

And I've watched it and I really honor it because I just so you know, I'm not geeking on. I just told him this in the green room today. It's been awesome to watch as a friend. Thanks brother. What you have become. Appreciate it. Thank you. He aligned himself. And I want to let you show, I know he shares on the podcast, but sometimes it's different when someone says it.

And I've watched it and I really honor it because I just so you know, I'm not geeking on. I just told him this in the green room today. It's been awesome to watch as a friend. Thanks brother. What you have become. Appreciate it. Thank you. He aligned himself. And I want to let you show, I know he shares on the podcast, but sometimes it's different when someone says it.

He aligned himself by getting counseling and therapy and help and going to seminars and listening to the people he interviews. He actually is present and he listens to them. And because he realigned himself in the universe, God assigned him Martha.

He aligned himself by getting counseling and therapy and help and going to seminars and listening to the people he interviews. He actually is present and he listens to them. And because he realigned himself in the universe, God assigned him Martha.

Thank God. And now he has the abundance of love. You see that happen? He aligned, then he was assigned.

Thank God. And now he has the abundance of love. You see that happen? He aligned, then he was assigned.

I'll break it down psychologically.

I'll break it down psychologically.

On that coaching, this is important. And he said it. He didn't need and he didn't try to control. And he didn't try to get. It's weird because I mean, we're at this money conversation tonight, but think about how often we need, we try to control and we try to get, and that's, that's our mode of operation that we've learned with money and relationships.

On that coaching, this is important. And he said it. He didn't need and he didn't try to control. And he didn't try to get. It's weird because I mean, we're at this money conversation tonight, but think about how often we need, we try to control and we try to get, and that's, that's our mode of operation that we've learned with money and relationships.

And it's why we have this terrible route of poor performance in those, in our culture. Because if it's need all the time, I mean, you can't be fulfilled. It's like the oldest metaphor I used to teach college kids back in the day. It's like, oh, if you have a relationship of two incomplete and broken people, they can't really ever quite connect.

And it's why we have this terrible route of poor performance in those, in our culture. Because if it's need all the time, I mean, you can't be fulfilled. It's like the oldest metaphor I used to teach college kids back in the day. It's like, oh, if you have a relationship of two incomplete and broken people, they can't really ever quite connect.

And that's why each person has to really work on their wholeness, because then you lock in. But if you're needy, you're always trying to grab somebody's parts. You're trying to grab. And then at some point, that doesn't feel good, so they pull away. The harder you grab at them to fill your incompleteness, the more they want to pull that part back of themselves. So neediness is never working.

And that's why each person has to really work on their wholeness, because then you lock in. But if you're needy, you're always trying to grab somebody's parts. You're trying to grab. And then at some point, that doesn't feel good, so they pull away. The harder you grab at them to fill your incompleteness, the more they want to pull that part back of themselves. So neediness is never working.

Control never works, which we all know, but we still try to do it on people. And then you're trying to get, and you're like, hey, actually, I'm not trying to get any from you, Marta. It's like, oh, okay. That's a powerful reframe. And so I think what you shared is so powerful because it's about relationships and money. But alignment, I want to really hammer that home.

Control never works, which we all know, but we still try to do it on people. And then you're trying to get, and you're like, hey, actually, I'm not trying to get any from you, Marta. It's like, oh, okay. That's a powerful reframe. And so I think what you shared is so powerful because it's about relationships and money. But alignment, I want to really hammer that home.

It's like achievement is not your problem. Alignment is. So many people are busy. They have busy work, but it's not their life's work. And until they move in more of the direction of the path of what is truly aligned, why is it that every spiritual text and everything we know from ancient traditions, why is it always this? Why is there always a centering?

It's like achievement is not your problem. Alignment is. So many people are busy. They have busy work, but it's not their life's work. And until they move in more of the direction of the path of what is truly aligned, why is it that every spiritual text and everything we know from ancient traditions, why is it always this? Why is there always a centering?