Brendon Burchard

So if a person is not willing to overcome their preferences, their natural style,

their natural preference for problems or people depth complexity, they won't achieve more

than their natural style.

My natural style is be home, be alone, not work that hard, pina colada time.

Relax, sleep in.

Right, relax.

Like what makes me comfortable and natural, for example, you and I have talked about this and you've coached me so well about like this.

Being the subject of an interview is very hard for me.

it is not natural it's why you can look for you know 20 years now my career was direct to camera or on stage teaching solo curriculum yeah no one's by myself youtube a camera no one's watching you no one's there yeah or live on stage too but yeah it's you teaching but not someone questioning you right or asking you questions yeah but that preference only allowed me to reach so many people

i want to get my message out i had to learn to talk i had to learn public speaking i had to learn video i had to learn to do interviews none of that is my preference so you must understand high performers override their preferences they choose a priority that is bigger than preference and that priority is a future vision a concrete vision or an aspirational self that's the difference maker that's really the difference maker if someone wants to be successful

Two big things that everyone knows commonly.

Number one, imposter syndrome.

Yeah, I'm in this room with these stars, but I don't really belong here.

Or number two, which is the real insidious thing, is lack of fulfillment.

Even when you succeed and achieve and accomplish beyond your wildest dreams?

So many people who have so much money, so much fame, so much success, so much external achievement, and also inner peace,

are not fulfilled.

And here's the crazy thing is, think about this.

You and I have talked a lot about belief.

You have this amazing work on your greatness mindset book.