Brené Brown

That checks out.

Okay, we have talked about this before, and I wasn't sure if we were going to talk about it today, so I prepped with a lit review on leaving conversations.

I'm going to tell you why.

I was curious.

I had this weird experience, I don't know, maybe 15 years ago, when the TED Talk on vulnerability went viral.

I

saw someone like duo my talk and do a running commentary over the top of it.

And I was so fascinated because this guy, this guy kept saying things.

Like here, you'll notice that she engineers a quarter of an inch head turn and moves her hips this way when she does a four second pause and moves her left foot.

This is conveying.

And I was like, what is he freaking talking about?

Like, why?

What is this like post game analysis that none of those things were in my head?

Or listen to the pause here and then look how, you know, have you ever seen people do that where they try to like build a system off something?

Yeah.

Oh, that's true.

We are guilty of doing that sometimes.

But I'm talking about the people who don't do it well.

Just kidding.

So I was curious about how I think about leaving conversations because we have talked about this before.