Brené Brown
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And she told me I was awesome.
And one of my roommates looked at me and said, what the fuck were you thinking?
That's not how it works.
When you are going toward them, they go away.
So you're always kind of going away.
So they come toward you.
And he goes, oh, oh, no.
No, I don't want to be that dude.
I was daring greatly.
And he said both of his roommates just got teary-eyed and went, right on, man, right on.
Like, there is no courage without vulnerability.
How can you say you're brave if you're not putting yourself out there?
Yeah, I mean, I think what you said was so loaded, right?
With so many things.
So first of all, there's this very interesting relationship between vulnerability and trust.
And how does that work?
And people always ask me what comes first, trust or vulnerability?
Do I trust you first, then I'm vulnerable?
Or am I vulnerable first and then I trust you?
And I think it's a very slow stacking.