Brianna Gomez

The real reason why you feel like you are always chasing love or you feel like you are never deserving love is because you are so focused on trying to earn it from other people instead of cultivating it from within yourself.

So if you want to learn how to fall in love with your life, yourself, and the world around you and to level up to unlock the hottest, highest, and healthiest version of you, this is the podcast for you.

If you're new here, my name is Brianna Gomez, but you can call me Bri, and I am your host of Hot and Unbothered, the ultimate place to be for the it girls who just want to become the version of themselves that's on their vision boards, that's on their Pinterest boards, but not only look the part, but feel the part, and that all stems from within.

That's the most important thing that we talk about here on Hot and Unbothered is that, yes, the external stuff, the glow up, the skincare routine, that is all great, but

but it all means nothing if it doesn't come from a place of love, intention, and depth.

The surface level stuff, it might look pretty, but it will not last even a second and it will not serve you

any good or any purpose, if you aren't making a full internal shift, a shift of perspective, a shift of heart, a shift of worth, that is the key to becoming truly hot and unbothered and truly glowing from the inside out.

So today, we are getting into all about love.

As Valentine's season approaches us, it's something that for a lot of people is

You might even feel an emptiness, if you will, or some sort of annoyance or some sort of issue, some sort of bone to pick with the idea of love.

And this might be because you're seeing other people have things that you don't.

This might be because you're bitter about an ex or just something bad happened on that day or you don't have love from family, friends within yourself.

A lot of people don't like Valentine's Day because they have created this narrative for themselves that they don't like love.

They don't do love.

They don't do the mushy-gushy.

They don't do the romantic romanticization.

It's just not for them.

I am here to tell you that love is not something that has to be given to you, that has to be

earned or deserved or granted access to you by some external figure, by some other person.

I am here to tell you that love is something that is already held within us and you have the choice actively every day to decide whether or not you want to open your heart, whether or not you want to exude love or hatred or bitterness or resentment or pettiness.