Brianna Gomez

And so my encouragement for you is to wait for the person who truly sees you.

Wait for the person who truly values you.

And you might be like, well, Bri, no one's treating me like that.

It's okay to wait.

And it's super important to know that you need to set this standard for yourself from the very start.

I want people to look at me, right?

If I were single, I'm in a very happy relationship right now, but if I were single, I would want people to look at me and guys to know that like if they don't respect me, if they don't actually think that they could treat me right or rise to the occasion, that they shouldn't even come close.

Like they shouldn't even try.

And I think it is possible to get to that point where people see you in the kind of relationship or romantic interest that you accept and

and they know that that is the standard you're setting for yourself if you will get with anyone and everyone and i mean romantically physically infatuatingly is that a word um that that is the standard that is the standard that you're setting so if they see you getting with everybody they'll be like oh yeah i can get a chance and it'll probably be easy and

And this is not to make anyone feel ashamed, but it's meant to tell you, like, you do have the power if you do want to be unattainable, untouchable, if you do want to hold yourself to a higher standard, if you do want to feel like you have a higher sense of self-worth.

You don't have to wait for someone else to tell you that.

You decide that from the very beginning.

And so if you set the pace from the very beginning that you are the kind of girl who needs to be taken on dates.

You are the kind of girl who deserves princess treatment and way more than bare minimum.

You are the kind of girl who expects the door to be open for her.

that is the kind of person you will attract.

But if you will just allow yourself to be treated like you are absolutely worthless, unfortunately, we do attract more of those people.

And it's not because there's anything wrong with you, but it's the kind of people that you allow into your energy.

But if you set that standard from the beginning, I think it'll be made clear that this is what they're getting themselves into.