Brianna Gomez

Clear that out of your mind.

Another person's actions or how they treat you will always say a hundred times more about them than it does about you, which is even more of a reminder that we cannot change people.

We cannot change people.

We cannot get them to see our worth.

They can only meet us where they are at and people can only love us as deeply as they love themselves and they can only meet us as deeply as they know themselves.

And I think so many people, they get into relationships not really knowing who they are or what they want, which is okay.

You don't have to be absolutely perfect.

But at the same time, a relationship should be two holes coming together and making a relationship.

But we have twisted it where we think that a relationship and love

is two halves 50-50 coming together to make a whole which is not right because then what happens if one person leaves or if one person falls short one day then you guys are empty then you guys don't feel whole you need to know

That even if this is the love of your life, you think it's your soulmate and you guys are just going to be together forever, which I hope you are, that even if you guys walk away from each other, that you will still feel like 100%.

A human, a body, a soul is 100%.

You are 100%.

You are a whole being.

And I hate that stereotype of life.

And I used to go through life thinking like this too, that I need my other half.

I have a missing half that's out there in the world and I need to find it.

But the truth is that

We are whole on our own and we will go through different relationships and different seasons of life with different people and on our own.

And throughout that, regardless of if you're with someone, if it lasts, if it doesn't, you are 100% the whole time.