Brianna Gomez

And if you're with someone who expects you to clean up their mess, that is so unhealthy and you will leave that relationship half the person you were when you first entered it.

save yourself i'm telling you save yourself like i'm waving the flags right now sound the alarms save yourself get out and i also want to encourage you because i know when you're going through a breakup or when you have to walk away from something that you really don't want to you find yourself saying like but what if no one else ever likes me again or there's no one like him what if i never feel this way again i promise with everything in my soul oh you will

You will.

Okay, Chad from Hinge is not your end-all be-all soulmate and I promise you that there are amazing other people out there who will make Chad from Hinge look like a little tiny ant.

You know what I mean?

is nothing and I think it's so easy for it to feel like the first person or the most infatuated you were with a person.

It might make it seem like they are your end all be all, your end game, the only one for you.

I promise they're not and I want to encourage you that anything or anyone who has meant for you will never pass you by so you shouldn't have to feel like you are jumping through hoops, bending over backwards to try and make it work with somebody.

It

Yes, fight for love.

But also, if you are so unhappy and you feel like your self-worth is just being absolutely crushed and diminished, it's okay to walk away.

And I know that it's hard.

And you might feel like, oh, like I'm going to be replaced, blah, blah, blah.

Like, good.

Good.

I hope that Chad from Hinge, who won't even open the door for you, who makes you go 50-50 on the bill, who won't make you his girlfriend even though you guys have been talking for two years straight, you need to be okay with not being the one in that situation.

And it can be so hard when you are going through something with a guy and you feel like the way that they are treating you is a reflection of you.

Oh, maybe guys don't take me out on nice dates because I don't deserve it.

Oh, maybe guys don't like me because I'm just not likable.

Maybe he doesn't see my worth because I don't have any.