Brianna Gomez

They're supposed to be silver.

And I feel that way, right?

And so then I invest in getting my car cleaned, a little detail, a little interior.

And I feel so much more confident because then I'm like, okay, I'm the kind of person who takes care of the things that I have been blessed with.

I'm the kind of person who values the things that they have in their life because they were entrusted to me, right?

God blessed me enough to have an abundant, fulfilling life.

And if I were to just treat those belongings like trash...

that doesn't make me feel good about myself and so being that person who doesn't feel like they have to hide certain aspects of their life because they're not taking care of them that is going to make a huge difference in your confidence i don't want you to think that you have to try super hard to be perceived a certain way especially in social interactions but even these small changes just do help with the way that you carry yourself and with your own self-confidence because

All of these things combined, right?

Your environment, your movement, your social cues, those all are sending a signal whether you realize it or not.

I feel like that's the thing that people don't realize about being hot and that's the thing that everyone is missing in their routine.

They are all like focused on how they're going to look right now, how they're going to do their makeup, how they're going to style their hair, how they're going to appear skinnier.

But the thing is, if you're doing it out of a place of insecurity, eventually, sooner or later, people are going to pick up on that.

And I feel like that's something I found.

I don't know.

I used to try so hard, especially like I remember being in middle school and everything, like to look a certain way or to follow a certain style.

But eventually it becomes so incredibly clear.

That's not your style, it's someone else's.

Those aren't your goals, it's someone else's.

That's not your body type, it's someone else's.