Brianna Gomez

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You guys know we are so close to 100K.

I've been saying that for months now, but I believe in us, okay?

We got it.

So if you're committed to just really transforming not just your life and not just your appearance, but your heart, go ahead, lock it in, follow, stay a while, and let's dive in.

The number one thing that I need you guys to know today is

is that love is not something that is earned.

We are so used to having to prove ourselves to others, especially if you went through something like toxic or some sort of trauma.

You may feel the need in your life to have to prove yourself to someone else in order to earn their love.

And I'm not just talking romantics.

Maybe you feel like you have to perform a certain way

in school in order to get validation from your teachers or from your parents because you have to maybe live up to a certain standard that someone else before you set.

Maybe you feel like you have to show up for all of your friends even on your hardest days when you don't feel like you are able to give.

You still show up and you still give because then you feel like all your friends are going to leave you if you don't show up for them this one time.

Or maybe it's in the form of FOMO, fear of missing out.

You are too afraid to say no to plans, so you say yes to everything.

Even though you are so drained, even though you don't feel like it, even if it's something that doesn't align with the kind of person you want to be, you go to it anyway because you're afraid that people will resent you if you don't show up to these things.

I'm here to tell you,

Any person who holds you to any of these conditions, number one, is not your friend.