Brianna Gomez

Sometimes we can't see that things are weighing us down until we are finally without them, until they have been pruned from our lives.

And I know it can be hard sometimes,

to feel like it's better to let go of those things but you won't know that it's better until you've given it the time to heal from it to detach from it and it's finally gone sometimes god has to remove the things that you refuse to walk away from okay because if you don't do it he's got to do it himself or you're going to keep going through the vicious cycles until you learn which is even worse

I feel like moms or honestly any other mother figure in your life are the people who create all the comfort in our homes.

They're people we can count on.

They're the ones doing a thousand little things every day that make everything feel warm and safe and calm.

And we don't always think about how rarely they get that same comfort back.

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And the slippers are so plush and

that cozy feeling where you just put them on and feel instantly relaxed.

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And if you see the little survey after checkout, make sure to mention you heard about Cozy Earth right here on Hot and Unbothered because honestly, home really does start with mom.

So make sure you give her some love.

And I know it's easier said than done in a lot of situations, so I'm gonna give you guys a few things that you can do when you feel like you have truly hit rock bottom.

The number one thing you're gonna do is stop trying to play Miss Perfect.

Stop trying to pretend that everything is fine when it's not fine.

That is the worst thing you can do.