Brianna Gomez

someone who really disrespects you, who really puts you in a hard position all the time and you're just so used to constantly walking on eggshells around this person.

You're so used to being readily available for them, being maybe even a little afraid of them because you are too afraid to lose them and you're too afraid of upsetting them and you don't want to be alone.

There is so much

deep build up for this however the same goes for everyone you will learn sooner or later that you have to let this person miss out on you meaning you have to let them learn on their own oh geez

It's not that easy.

I can't do whatever I want.

I can't boss them around.

I can't treat them poorly and walk all over them and they'll still be there.

And the reason why they haven't had that realization yet is because you proved them otherwise.

You have shown them that time and time again they can do whatever they want, treat you, disrespect you however they want.

and you will still be there but today we are rewriting the story and i know it might seem scary like oh gosh i don't think i'm ready to walk away from this person i don't think i'm ready to detach but you guys it is happening and i believe in you because let me give you this reassurance i have been in that exact position very very deeply

And I know what it's like to feel like, oh my gosh, if I walk away, I'm going to die.

If I walk away, I'm going to lose this person forever and my life is going to be over.

I know what it's like to be in that situation.

Maybe you're face to face with them in the heat of an argument and they're telling you to leave and you're like, I can't leave because then it means that this is over.

I know what it's like and I know that it's not a fun feeling and I know especially if you have a deep, maybe toxic, unhealthy, anxious attachment towards them, that makes it even worse.

I know you can say, oh my gosh, I've been through so much with this person.

How am I going to just walk away?

I can't.

The truth is you can.