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Brianna Gomez

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
4833 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

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Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

You might be like, Bri, we really had something, we were really special, I really was in love with him.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

Some people will lose you because they don't know how to keep something real.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

You might think that you can try and spell it out for them, but the longer you try to explain to someone why they should see you, why they should want you, why they should love you, the more that chips away at your self-worth, the more that depletes and diminishes and just drains the life and the value out of you because you shouldn't be having to do that.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

If you have to sit there and tell someone the reasons why they should be with you or why they should want you or why they should love you, how much then do you love yourself?

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

You might love yourself right now and going into it, but by the end of that, you will be so drained and your self-love does go down.

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Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

And I've been in that situation and it's not a fun one to be in because then you have to get to that point where you build yourself back up and you will, but you have to recognize that some people will not know how to hold a high-value woman in their life or a high-value friend in their life simply because if they have so much negativity, if they have so much hurt, if they have so much of their own stuff that's going on surrounding it, they don't have room.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

They don't have capacity for you and you can't make room.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

It's their life.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

It's their problems.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

And you don't want to insert yourself into that equation where you simply do not make sense.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

Remember that some people simply are not ready for what you have to offer and you have to let them miss out on that.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

Think of if you have your most prized possession, whatever your most prized possession is.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

Maybe it's a baby unicorn figurine.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

Maybe it's a gold plated diamond, whatever.

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Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

I don't care.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

Think of whatever the most prized possession, sentimental, expense-wise is to you.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

And imagine if you had to put a price on it, okay?

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Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

And you know this is worth $2 million.

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Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

It's almost like my pink diamond theory.

Hot and Unbothered
Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

Highly recommend you go listen to that.