Brianna Gomez

Maybe it's a physical something, maybe it's something private, and they will say something that makes you feel like you can trust them.

But I say before you give someone your full trust, let their actions tell you.

And I'm not trying to give everyone trust issues right now.

I'm a very trusting person, but also be discernful.

Don't be willing to lay everything you have on the line to someone who might be saying all the right things, but if they aren't doing the right things, it means nothing.

So pay attention to how they prioritize you.

Pay attention to how they show up for you.

Pay attention to how they respect you.

Pay attention to if their actions are consistent.

Because I feel like so many people are wishy-washy.

Maybe they'll be there for you and they might even show up and they might show you love when it's convenient for them.

But the last thing you should want is a love that's based on convenience.

yes someone might show up for you when they have nothing else to do but what about when you really need them when you are in a time of need when you ask them for help do they show up and i think then would be a good opportunity to start building upon something to start doing the same for them but if it's just a one-way street

If you look at the pattern of it and it's always you showing up for them and they have never, like ask yourself this question.

My boyfriend actually asked me this question once about a different situation and I've said this in a podcast episode, so I need to give him credit.

He's the one who gave me the idea of this theory.

But look at the relationship and I want you to ask, what do you yourself bring to the table?

It can be love.

It can be nurturing.

It could be someone to depend on.