Brianna Gomez

A lot of people refrain from being confident or they feel like they need to shrink themselves down because they are afraid of appearing egotistical or like they have a big head.

There are two different things.

ego and confidence.

And fun fact, someone who is not confident will often mistake the two.

They will look at a confident person and be like, oh, their ego is huge.

Well, is their ego huge or is their confidence making you feel insecure?

And so let me set the record straight.

A confident person

will never put someone else down.

They will never feel the need to be confident in order to impress other people.

It's all because of how they view themselves and because they're actually so secure in themselves that someone else's confidence, someone else's beauty, someone else's success could never take away from their own.

Someone with a big ego feels like they have something that they need to prove to someone.

They feel like they need to prove a point.

They feel like they need to be the highest in the room, the prettiest in the room, the most successful in the room.

But a true confident person knows that seeing either a confident or egotistical person does not diminish their self-worth or their value anymore.

Someone with an ego who feels like they have to prove themselves or present themselves a certain way or to impress others or just be big and loud in order to get attention...

That comes from insecurity.

So my challenge to you guys is to make sure you are becoming confident, not from a place of insecurity, but just from a place of happiness, fulfillment, and abundance within yourself, and not because you have to prove some point, not because you're seeking attention so desperately, not because you want validation from others.

That's not going to work.

So I need you to rewire your mindset for this.