Brianna Gomez
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Podcast Appearances
If you are trying to become confident because you want to earn validation, you want people to like you, you want to just seem hotter, better than everyone else, that's not confidence.
That's having a huge ego and a huge head and that is actually insecurity.
So reel that back in.
we are going to become confident because it will make your life easier.
Living life in fear, in anxiety, in doubt, in self-limiting beliefs, that has been the most miserable years of my life, honestly, because when you are walking around so worried about what other people think of you, how they're viewing you, how you're being perceived, thinking, oh, is something wrong with me?
Oh, am I going to mess up?
When you are automatically assuming the worst and
That is just a terrible way to live.
You will never be happy.
You will never be confident.
And I need you to be willing right now to make the shift.
So have your mind open to the fact that you can be confident.
Say it right now, write it down.
Not just I can be confident, I am confident.
And it might feel silly.
It might not feel true in this moment right now, but I can guarantee that after listening to this episode, it will be.
And how it feels to be confident is to walk around knowing that there is nothing that anyone else can do or say or anything that can happen that will take away from the value that you hold within yourself.
And it's being able to say, you know, people will laugh, people will judge, people will look at me, but I know that it has nothing to do with me
and everything to do with them.
So we are going to continue diving deep into confidence.