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Brianna Gomez

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How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

If you are trying to become confident because you want to earn validation, you want people to like you, you want to just seem hotter, better than everyone else, that's not confidence.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

That's having a huge ego and a huge head and that is actually insecurity.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

So reel that back in.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

we are going to become confident because it will make your life easier.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

Living life in fear, in anxiety, in doubt, in self-limiting beliefs, that has been the most miserable years of my life, honestly, because when you are walking around so worried about what other people think of you, how they're viewing you, how you're being perceived, thinking, oh, is something wrong with me?

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

Oh, am I going to mess up?

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

When you are automatically assuming the worst and

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

That is just a terrible way to live.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

You will never be happy.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

You will never be confident.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And I need you to be willing right now to make the shift.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

So have your mind open to the fact that you can be confident.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

Say it right now, write it down.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

Not just I can be confident, I am confident.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And it might feel silly.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

It might not feel true in this moment right now, but I can guarantee that after listening to this episode, it will be.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And how it feels to be confident is to walk around knowing that there is nothing that anyone else can do or say or anything that can happen that will take away from the value that you hold within yourself.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

And it's being able to say, you know, people will laugh, people will judge, people will look at me, but I know that it has nothing to do with me

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

and everything to do with them.

Hot and Unbothered
How to Actually Build REAL Confidence in a World of Ego (Without Faking It)

So we are going to continue diving deep into confidence.