Brianna Gomez

And that's where the comparison factor comes in.

Comparison is quite literally a disease.

It is a plague in our generation with social media, with

Everything that we encounter on our phones and in our daily lives in the society we live in, it is so bad for us.

And so I just want you to be able to break free from the constant comparison cycle.

And the way you do this is like I was saying earlier,

be able to acknowledge and appreciate someone else's confidence, success, and beauty.

If you can do those things, that will automatically make you more secure and more confident than the person who is insecure and feels the need to hyper analyze every single thing about every other person.

A lot of us have encountered that person who feels the need to hyperanalyze other people and say something about it and just judge in such an unwarranted way.

Do not be that person because the truth about that person is they feel like they need to put down others in order to contribute to their own personal confidence, success, and beauty, which is just such an ugly trait.

So don't get it twisted.

That is an ego thing.

That is an insecurity thing.

Do not be that person.

If you want to be truly confident, you will be able to cheer for other people and know that that does not take away from your own worth or confidence.

I know for a fact the most confident people are the ones who are able to congratulate others, be genuinely happy for others, and I know it's so hard in a world full of comparison to completely outroot jealousy when it is living all around us, but that is my challenge to you is the next time you feel like you want to be someone else,

focus on being like, I am happy for them, but I am still my own person.

I can be inspired by them, but I do not want to be them.

I think that we live in a world where we are conditioned to constantly want to wear someone else's shoes, walk in their shoes, have their lives.

A huge aspect of confidence is knowing that this is my life.