Bridie

And I'd be saying, oh my God, that baby, will you shut it up?

She told us that, yeah.

And then that's when...

mum and dad stepped in then and they said sure we'll take her for a whiling and just give you a break and maybe let things settle a bit and she agreed to that then and then that went on for a good few weeks it was like everything else it started off as a maybe once off but then it became a more permanent a more permanent fixture and i suppose she looked at it that she could be she should be with her but she couldn't be with her so

I think so.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Or she'd have laid it on thick and heavy, like, poor me, and if you leave me now.

And she was weak.

So, God knows what she said to her.

She might have said, oh, I'm doing nothing to myself if you leave me, or, you know.

I suppose she put the emotional pressure on Sandra, and Sandra wasn't able for her.

She wasn't strong enough that way.

She was too soft.

Yeah.

She was too soft.

Whereas I tell her, off with you.

Yeah.

So then Sandra made the decision that, no, trust in the right place, trust in the right environment.

She gave the baby up for adoption.