Brittany Luce

And he's just this ball of want and need and just self...

like just feeling sorry for himself constantly um and yeah in some ways i think that that kind of draws you know that draws people in like you said draw some of the women in but by the time they realize that it's like oh this is like there's just more of this i go layers and layers deeper and it's just more and more of this abyss of like neediness it's it's too late by then usually

Who's like a man that people might think of as pathetic?

but doesn't fit this definition.

It catches up with him.

Okay, I was like, oh my God, I don't remember this one.

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It's interesting.

It sounds like what you're describing is like this dynamic that I feel like you're describing a type of man that I hear a lot about in terms of like hetero dating.

So I am married.

I've been with my husband for going on 11 years.

And so I've been...

And something that I have, I saw cresting like as I was like about like in the time right before I met my husband and I was like dating online.

And it seems like it has gone full blown.

But there's a type of guy I think that a lot of women think of as like the 50-50 guy who I think really what that idea of 50-50 is getting at is that like in the past, at least speaking for myself as like a millennial, I'm like 38 years old.

Not like I am 38 years old.

In the past, like a sort of like traditional guy for like my parents' generation, they're like boomers.

Maybe even like I would say this might apply to like the Jones generation or Gen X too as well, is like a guy who may not be able to offer you much in terms of like emotional understanding and support in that sense.

But he's going to go to work.

He's going to make money.