Brittany Luce

Kind of separate from the performative male.

It just sounds like, you know, they're kind of trying to find comfort in the aesthetics of, you know, maybe being this like enlightened, like cool, emotionally in tune guy.

Yeah.

But he's like not doing that right.

He's not actually doing that work.

Okay, wait.

So give me an example of like a man or a fictional character in pop culture that people would know that fits your definition of the pathetic man.

And maybe a man in pop culture who might seem like a pathetic man, but isn't.

Just so people can really understand the difference.

He knows.

And by the time they often realize it, it's like way too late.

I mean, literally one of the characters, one of the main characters of Industry literally marries him and is then kind of like, ah.

You know, I mean, she thinks she's marrying this billionaire guy who is –

He's pretty hot.

I mean, he's played by the same actor who played Jon Snow, which I didn't watch Game of Thrones.

Kit Harington.

He's played by Kit Harington.

Handsome guy.

Very charismatic.

But like you said, you get one layer beneath the surface.