Brodie Kane

And I think that possibly...

That coupled with meeting someone in my late 30s and knowing exactly who I am are really good things.

So yes, does it mean that it's like, okay, we literally have to go, because in my, my, my, my beloved Josh.

Listen to me.

And he's got children.

So we have to literally look at our calendars and go, right, well, okay, I think I can come down.

I'm here this weekend, but I can nip down then or he will come up.

So it's really, we really have to.

Well, I think that there is... Because it's part of every relationship.

Yeah.

And it's not necessarily negative.

No, it's not.

And you have to... But I think it's... But the compromising stuff as well, I think it's really important to...

voice how you're feeling about it as well.

For instance, right now, as of today, I don't want to, right now today, pack up my life and move to Taupō.

He knows that because we communicate that.

But could that and is that likely to change to some degree whereby there might be some split community type scenario?

Yes, because I can do that.

You know what I mean?

So he's got children.