Bruce

Yes.

And as a mother of your children and you have common.

denominators and common issues.

And then, you know, once your kids have left the house, the emptiness syndrome, suddenly it's you two having to put up with each other and figure out how you're going to make the next 40 years of your life fun, lively, and everything else.

Yes, yes.

Although there were there were a few single ones.

Most of the time, it was strictly sex.

Oh, yeah.

Yeah, there's friendship.

Yeah, and it was people... This is a... In listening to some of your podcasts, I broke the first rule, and that is you don't dip your pen in company ink.

Uh-oh.

And I find that...

I can get close to the people I work with.

And there's a mutual respect.

And pretty soon that respect turns into more than respect and friendship and touching, etc, etc.

Yes, yes.

And the other thing, when I was single, I never, never was able to go into a bar and pick up a woman and take them home and fuck her.

Never, ever happened.

But once you got... Well, back up, you'll find this story interesting.

I dated... Once I got engaged, my personality or interaction with women changed.