Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1427 - Bruce Cheated on his First Wife, then Started Swinging with his Second Wife
14 Apr 2026
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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
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Chapter 2: Why did Bruce cheat on his first wife?
goes along with the program or she doesn't. Now, the other interesting facet of education, if you will, is pornography. And I remember one time later in my marriage, I brought home a videotape. And I mean, it was like, you don't bring that trish into my home. And so I've recognized as I've gotten older that I enjoy porn. My present wife enjoys looking at porn with me.
And it's a turn on for both of us. And as you get older, you need more and more stimulation. And pornography offers that. And in addition, it's an educational tool.
Chapter 3: What were the major issues in Bruce's first marriage?
And you can see what other people are doing. You can try it or not try it. So basically, that was why I was screwing around in my first marriage.
Let me ask you a couple of questions about that first marriage. So like you said, you know, kissing no blow jobs because she didn't want to swallow. And one time you almost, you slightly came in her mouth and then she stopped blow jobs. Was she giving you regular sex and was she enjoying regular sex with you?
Yes.
Okay.
Yes.
But no kissing. She never liked to kiss.
No.
Okay.
And the other thing is she didn't know how to handle a man. A penis. I mean, she'd take my dick and flip it back and forth, you know, as opposed to rub it up and down and massage it. You know, she didn't know.
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Chapter 4: How did Bruce transition from cheating to swinging?
Like nothing, it never starts out like where it winds up. It's always great in the beginning or else, why would you marry that person? Exactly. And also, I'm sorry, but first wives are always so different than second wives because you marry your first wife for very different reasons than why you marry a second wife.
Chapter 5: What rules did Bruce and his second wife establish for swinging?
I love to see pictures of first wife versus second wife material because they're always very different types of women. First wife is like the mother of your children, the person your family is going to be close with. You know what I mean? I don't know. They're just so much more invested in that first wife than sex.
Second wife, you're going to fuck and you're going to travel and you're going to have fun. So, you know, most likely she's going to be a little bit kind of a different kind of woman. I'm sorry.
Oh, for sure.
For sure. I'm more second wife material. I was never first wife material. And that's OK, because I never wanted to be a fucking wife and cook and clean for some guy. It was like I'd rather kill myself. But, you know, that's it's just a very true thing. But all these great women, though, that did want to do all those things were available.
And, you know, you weren't just you didn't just pick her for sex. I mean, she wound up being the mother of your children. You know, you have a partnership with her. There's a lot more going at stake.
Yes. And as a mother of your children and you have common. denominators and common issues. And then, you know, once your kids have left the house, the emptiness syndrome, suddenly it's you two having to put up with each other and figure out how you're going to make the next 40 years of your life fun, lively, and everything else.
Yeah, no, I know. It's a common kind of a thing. Let me ask you this, though, about all the people you had affairs with. I mean, where would you meet them? Were they typically married women themselves?
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Chapter 6: How did Bruce's wife react to their swinging lifestyle?
Yes, yes.
Chapter 7: How did therapy influence Bruce's perspective on cheating?
Although there were there were a few single ones.
Okay. And they were just like coming for like, you know, side sex or whatever. Because I mean, you were just like, banging them and leaving like, I mean, this wasn't like, when you say affairs, are these like you're you're seeing them outside of the bedroom as well? Or does it did feelings ever go on between and you and any of these women? Or was it strictly sex?
Most of the time, it was strictly sex.
I mean, there's friendship, I'm sure, that grows sometimes.
Oh, yeah. Yeah, there's friendship. Yeah, and it was people... This is a... In listening to some of your podcasts, I broke the first rule, and that is you don't dip your pen in company ink. Uh-oh. And I find that... I can get close to the people I work with.
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Chapter 8: What led to Bruce and his wife stopping swinging?
And there's a mutual respect. And pretty soon that respect turns into more than respect and friendship and touching, etc, etc.
Oh, my God, that's a boundary issue, Bruce.
Yes, yes.
Depending on who you are in the office. I don't know. That's right.
And the other thing, when I was single, I never, never was able to go into a bar and pick up a woman and take them home and fuck her. Never, ever happened. But once you got... Well, back up, you'll find this story interesting. I dated... Once I got engaged, my personality or interaction with women changed. And... I got engaged and a week later, I had a woman outright proposition me.
And I'm going, where in the hell were you a week ago when I wasn't engaged?
Oh my God, you had the stink on you of unavailability with some women find very attractive.
That's right. And the other thing is that once you've had sex, if you didn't have much penetrative sex before marriage, once you have it, you begin saying, well, what did I miss? What did I miss? What am I missing? And you start looking around thinking, is this all there is? And I had an older brother who shared with me that he had gone to, I think it was Plato's in New York.
Oh, okay. This is where the swinging seeds get planted for you.
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