Bryce Carver
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Now, imagine in a marriage if a girl is trying so hard to make their husband love them by dressing up and putting on makeup and then finding out that their husband is watching porn. They would probably be devastated knowing that their husband is more attracted to girls on a screen than their actual wife. Whereas the husband can have self-control to say, I'm actually not going to watch porn.
Now, imagine in a marriage if a girl is trying so hard to make their husband love them by dressing up and putting on makeup and then finding out that their husband is watching porn. They would probably be devastated knowing that their husband is more attracted to girls on a screen than their actual wife. Whereas the husband can have self-control to say, I'm actually not going to watch porn.
I'm attracted to my wife and I love my wife and I'm going to show up for her. And I just think it's super unrealistic to kind of like... to kind of like create this like thing of like like sex is this this worldview and this and this lifestyle like I, I can't get behind. I think there's just more to life than sex. I think sex is enjoyable in marriage. I think it's a gift.
I'm attracted to my wife and I love my wife and I'm going to show up for her. And I just think it's super unrealistic to kind of like... to kind of like create this like thing of like like sex is this this worldview and this and this lifestyle like I, I can't get behind. I think there's just more to life than sex. I think sex is enjoyable in marriage. I think it's a gift.
I'm attracted to my wife and I love my wife and I'm going to show up for her. And I just think it's super unrealistic to kind of like... to kind of like create this like thing of like like sex is this this worldview and this and this lifestyle like I, I can't get behind. I think there's just more to life than sex. I think sex is enjoyable in marriage. I think it's a gift.
But I think to take that outside of this covenant of marriage and this enjoyable thing that you do with a person you make a commitment to and it's an act of intimacy, according to the Bible, making it an intimate act that you do with someone dishing that out to multiple people. to me, devalues the intimacy aspect of it.
But I think to take that outside of this covenant of marriage and this enjoyable thing that you do with a person you make a commitment to and it's an act of intimacy, according to the Bible, making it an intimate act that you do with someone dishing that out to multiple people. to me, devalues the intimacy aspect of it.
But I think to take that outside of this covenant of marriage and this enjoyable thing that you do with a person you make a commitment to and it's an act of intimacy, according to the Bible, making it an intimate act that you do with someone dishing that out to multiple people. to me, devalues the intimacy aspect of it.
I think intimacy is valuable, right? So if I'm gonna be honest like if I caught my wife if I was married I caught my wife watching porn it would make me not want to be with her if I'm being totally honest with you and here's why it's because if the very thing that we get to do in a marriage is have sex and enjoy this thing and
I think intimacy is valuable, right? So if I'm gonna be honest like if I caught my wife if I was married I caught my wife watching porn it would make me not want to be with her if I'm being totally honest with you and here's why it's because if the very thing that we get to do in a marriage is have sex and enjoy this thing and
I think intimacy is valuable, right? So if I'm gonna be honest like if I caught my wife if I was married I caught my wife watching porn it would make me not want to be with her if I'm being totally honest with you and here's why it's because if the very thing that we get to do in a marriage is have sex and enjoy this thing and
and then you're withholding that from me and finding an avenue somewhere else, finding the sense of pleasure, pleasuring yourself to something that you're watching on the screen versus finding it with the person that you've made a covenant marriage to, my intimacy isn't valuable to you anymore. And so therefore it makes me not want to be with you.
and then you're withholding that from me and finding an avenue somewhere else, finding the sense of pleasure, pleasuring yourself to something that you're watching on the screen versus finding it with the person that you've made a covenant marriage to, my intimacy isn't valuable to you anymore. And so therefore it makes me not want to be with you.
and then you're withholding that from me and finding an avenue somewhere else, finding the sense of pleasure, pleasuring yourself to something that you're watching on the screen versus finding it with the person that you've made a covenant marriage to, my intimacy isn't valuable to you anymore. And so therefore it makes me not want to be with you.
And so I can understand why people could see that. But then you also have to understand like your worldview is different than my worldview. So you're like, well, it's not a big deal to me, but it is a big deal to me because I think intimacy is valuable and I don't dish it out to anyone. And this is what I'm getting at.
And so I can understand why people could see that. But then you also have to understand like your worldview is different than my worldview. So you're like, well, it's not a big deal to me, but it is a big deal to me because I think intimacy is valuable and I don't dish it out to anyone. And this is what I'm getting at.
And so I can understand why people could see that. But then you also have to understand like your worldview is different than my worldview. So you're like, well, it's not a big deal to me, but it is a big deal to me because I think intimacy is valuable and I don't dish it out to anyone. And this is what I'm getting at.
I want to be careful because I don't want to bash people that have had sex in the past. I believe if you come to Jesus Christ, he offers forgiveness, and you can wipe the slate clean as if you've never done it before, and you can wait. I'm not saying that Jesus makes you a virgin again, but Jesus gives you this perspective where I'm going to wait until marriage now for my husband.
I want to be careful because I don't want to bash people that have had sex in the past. I believe if you come to Jesus Christ, he offers forgiveness, and you can wipe the slate clean as if you've never done it before, and you can wait. I'm not saying that Jesus makes you a virgin again, but Jesus gives you this perspective where I'm going to wait until marriage now for my husband.
I want to be careful because I don't want to bash people that have had sex in the past. I believe if you come to Jesus Christ, he offers forgiveness, and you can wipe the slate clean as if you've never done it before, and you can wait. I'm not saying that Jesus makes you a virgin again, but Jesus gives you this perspective where I'm going to wait until marriage now for my husband.