Bryce Carver

I made mistakes in the past, but I'm going to wait now. I think that's the redemption that happens there. There is redemption. There is forgiveness. There is grace. But like my intimacy is valuable and it's for the person I made a commitment to. And so for me to say, well, you know, well, you know, my significant other, they're just not doing it for me.

I made mistakes in the past, but I'm going to wait now. I think that's the redemption that happens there. There is redemption. There is forgiveness. There is grace. But like my intimacy is valuable and it's for the person I made a commitment to. And so for me to say, well, you know, well, you know, my significant other, they're just not doing it for me.

I made mistakes in the past, but I'm going to wait now. I think that's the redemption that happens there. There is redemption. There is forgiveness. There is grace. But like my intimacy is valuable and it's for the person I made a commitment to. And so for me to say, well, you know, well, you know, my significant other, they're just not doing it for me.

So I need to find a way that makes me feel excited and please myself. Well, you're not making me feel excited, but porn is going to make me feel excited. So I'm going to go watch some scenes and, you know, and pleasure myself. Like, man, I'm just like totally disregarding the beautiful sex that I can have. In a marriage you say, not that valuable to me.

So I need to find a way that makes me feel excited and please myself. Well, you're not making me feel excited, but porn is going to make me feel excited. So I'm going to go watch some scenes and, you know, and pleasure myself. Like, man, I'm just like totally disregarding the beautiful sex that I can have. In a marriage you say, not that valuable to me.

So I need to find a way that makes me feel excited and please myself. Well, you're not making me feel excited, but porn is going to make me feel excited. So I'm going to go watch some scenes and, you know, and pleasure myself. Like, man, I'm just like totally disregarding the beautiful sex that I can have. In a marriage you say, not that valuable to me.

This is more valuable to me than what you're offering to me. And this is what I think the healthiest definition of sex is. What I've talked to healthy married couples, Christian married couples, they say the best sex is when both parties try to out serve each other. Where the man is trying to make the woman feel good. I'm getting really intense right now.

This is more valuable to me than what you're offering to me. And this is what I think the healthiest definition of sex is. What I've talked to healthy married couples, Christian married couples, they say the best sex is when both parties try to out serve each other. Where the man is trying to make the woman feel good. I'm getting really intense right now.

This is more valuable to me than what you're offering to me. And this is what I think the healthiest definition of sex is. What I've talked to healthy married couples, Christian married couples, they say the best sex is when both parties try to out serve each other. Where the man is trying to make the woman feel good. I'm getting really intense right now.

and the woman is trying to make the man feel good. That's the best sex is when you try to out serve each other, right? Any sex outside of marriage is selfish, because it's about how you're supposed to feel. And if I, even in marriage, I think it can be sinful in the sense that if I went into marriage and sex is in, I'm gonna make myself feel good, then I would be using my wife for myself.

and the woman is trying to make the man feel good. That's the best sex is when you try to out serve each other, right? Any sex outside of marriage is selfish, because it's about how you're supposed to feel. And if I, even in marriage, I think it can be sinful in the sense that if I went into marriage and sex is in, I'm gonna make myself feel good, then I would be using my wife for myself.

and the woman is trying to make the man feel good. That's the best sex is when you try to out serve each other, right? Any sex outside of marriage is selfish, because it's about how you're supposed to feel. And if I, even in marriage, I think it can be sinful in the sense that if I went into marriage and sex is in, I'm gonna make myself feel good, then I would be using my wife for myself.

And I don't think that's okay at all. Cause then that's going to make my wife not enjoy this gift from God in this covenantal marriage aspect. And so that's why masturbation and porn is like such a big thing. It's because like, Oh, well I got to blow off some steam. Why do you have to blow off some steam? Well, cause I need to feel good. I need to get rid of this pressure. I need to do this.

And I don't think that's okay at all. Cause then that's going to make my wife not enjoy this gift from God in this covenantal marriage aspect. And so that's why masturbation and porn is like such a big thing. It's because like, Oh, well I got to blow off some steam. Why do you have to blow off some steam? Well, cause I need to feel good. I need to get rid of this pressure. I need to do this.

And I don't think that's okay at all. Cause then that's going to make my wife not enjoy this gift from God in this covenantal marriage aspect. And so that's why masturbation and porn is like such a big thing. It's because like, Oh, well I got to blow off some steam. Why do you have to blow off some steam? Well, cause I need to feel good. I need to get rid of this pressure. I need to do this.

And it becomes a selfish act rather than, all right, I got this testosterone buildup. Let me go hit the gym really quick.

And it becomes a selfish act rather than, all right, I got this testosterone buildup. Let me go hit the gym really quick.

And it becomes a selfish act rather than, all right, I got this testosterone buildup. Let me go hit the gym really quick.

Sure. So that's where I would say the self-control comes in, right? That the love is the choice more than the feeling. I'm getting like, dang, my wife's tired. you know, whatever, but instead of like taking care of my, oh, well, I got this feeling. So I need to, you know, blow off some steam right now. It's just actually the, hold on.

Sure. So that's where I would say the self-control comes in, right? That the love is the choice more than the feeling. I'm getting like, dang, my wife's tired. you know, whatever, but instead of like taking care of my, oh, well, I got this feeling. So I need to, you know, blow off some steam right now. It's just actually the, hold on.