Brynn Whitfield
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
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Yeah.
Yeah.
So the infatuation. Yeah, it was like, was it lust at first sight?
So the infatuation. Yeah, it was like, was it lust at first sight?
Because it seemed like right off the bat you like went in pretty hot.
Because it seemed like right off the bat you like went in pretty hot.
I understand. I have done the same thing, too, where... I kind of operate as, like, unless you're committed to me, I'm not going to, like, fuck you.
I understand. I have done the same thing, too, where... I kind of operate as, like, unless you're committed to me, I'm not going to, like, fuck you.
Yeah, and I respect that. But I know, and I have the experience, and you learn this. I learned this in my 20s and 30s, is that you can put that requirement on people, and you'll get it. But it's not... The same as getting it organically. It's a little bit of like mandated and sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
Yeah, and I respect that. But I know, and I have the experience, and you learn this. I learned this in my 20s and 30s, is that you can put that requirement on people, and you'll get it. But it's not... The same as getting it organically. It's a little bit of like mandated and sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
So I always tell women to like, no, make them earn it and get what you deserve and have them commit to you 100%. But at the same time, I know that when I put that stipulation on men, sometimes they will give me what I want, but it's actually not what I need. I needed like true commitment and that you willingly devoted yourself to me, not just because I made up this rule.
So I always tell women to like, no, make them earn it and get what you deserve and have them commit to you 100%. But at the same time, I know that when I put that stipulation on men, sometimes they will give me what I want, but it's actually not what I need. I needed like true commitment and that you willingly devoted yourself to me, not just because I made up this rule.
For sure.
For sure.
Were you like, I got to run out the clock? Or you're like, I'm just going to post up a screen, just go in for the layup real quick.
Were you like, I got to run out the clock? Or you're like, I'm just going to post up a screen, just go in for the layup real quick.
Yeah.
Yeah.
No, 30 day rule makes sense.
No, 30 day rule makes sense.