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Caitlin V

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Why Intimacy Breaks Down in Modern Relationships | Caitlin V | Ep. 427

And again, this is what you were training your body to do over and over and over again.

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It is just running the pattern that you have been giving it.

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But people think that because porn is distinct from partner and sex, that their body will somehow behave differently.

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But the lizard part of your brain, which is the part that really controls the majority of your sexuality,

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It doesn't know the difference.

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Lizards can't, they don't have imaginations.

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They can't project into the future or in the past.

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They don't know that that's a screen, right?

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Why Intimacy Breaks Down in Modern Relationships | Caitlin V | Ep. 427

So that part of your brain does not know that what's happening on the screen is distinct from what's actually happening in your physical life.

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It cannot know the difference.

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I thought edgelords were people on the internet that just said stuff to drum up conflict.

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She's the one who had Goon.

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Oh, really?

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Why Intimacy Breaks Down in Modern Relationships | Caitlin V | Ep. 427

Yeah, she knew that one.

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Yeah, I mean, the language is changing.

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Why Intimacy Breaks Down in Modern Relationships | Caitlin V | Ep. 427

No, I mean, on one hand, it's great that we can decide that we have a shared language to describe things.

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I guess.

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But it is happening so fast.

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Yeah, I mean, generational differences are...

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Why Intimacy Breaks Down in Modern Relationships | Caitlin V | Ep. 427

I actually think that that is only true in older generations.