Caitlin V

And so what they're doing is they're not letting themselves reach ejaculation.

They're edging.

They're getting close to the orgasm and not going over the edge.

Yeah.

It's almost like onomatopoeia.

You're gooning.

And it's sort of like...

Our bodies were not evolved to do this, right?

So this is like, you know, when I have like, you know, what's an actual example?

When I have like chocolate covered cherries at my house, my body did not evolve to like walk by those and say no to them, right?

I'm just going to finish the bag.

That's how that is.

So I don't buy them because I know that I would be putting like the two hour.

Yeah, yeah.

I just can't like bring it into the house.

So for some folks, they have like a compulsion towards doing this.

I also think it takes the place of having a romantic or intimate relationship a lot of the time.

And they kind of tell themselves like this is...

maybe they're not even conscious enough to tell themselves, but they're like, this is some form of a replacement for the kind of relationship that I would like to have, but don't feel like I could have.

So those guys end up often with delayed ejaculation, meaning that they cannot reach orgasm when they're with a partner.