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Caitlin V

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Whereas like if you're in a room with a whole bunch of other people, you can like assess 20 or 30, maybe you go to like a house party, you can assess like 15 other people of the opposite sex.

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House, house, house, house, house.

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But there is a certain advantage to being in person with other folks.

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Yeah.

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You and I had different.

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I have hope.

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I travel different.

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But it's not again, I'm a super extroverted.

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So everywhere that I've traveled, I've wanted to meet people and date people and have, you know, explore and meet the locals and do all the things.

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I think that vulnerability is cringe.

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And I think that, and I'm not shading Jen.

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I think that, so here's what I, I live across the street from a middle school.

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and i don't know if you are familiar with this this is maybe specific to los angeles where i live too but like everyone dresses the same now like every middle schooler they wear the same clothes they look indistinguishable from one another and i mean no disrespect to the middle schoolers i live across from uh but i can't help but notice like i'll see them walk in a pack of like six or eight and they all look like carbon copies of each other there there's this sort of move towards

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a singular, like acceptable, very sort of lowest common denominator aesthetic that I think we're seeing in plastic surgery.

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So we're seeing that in people's faces and we're seeing it in certainly in younger generations.

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And I think that's sort of like across the board, we're seeing sort of like a neutralization of our aesthetic.

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I mean, you can see it in apps, like apps are moving overwhelmingly to like black and white and grayscale.

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They used to be a lot more colorful.

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So

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I think we are, across the board, we're experiencing this sort of like move towards things that feel maybe safer, feel a little blander, feel a little more neutral.