Caitlin V

But I really appreciate that in my relationship, I can express that like today on one of the airports on the way here, I saw this like incredibly beautiful TSA agent in her uniform and her like tight bun and her glasses and I was like,

Did it for you.

Wow.

Yeah.

Really, really unexpectedly, surprisingly, just like smack in the face.

Like, hello.

Did it for me.

Yeah.

And so and so like I like that I can express that to my partner and that like, you know, that's not where we're at today.

But there may be a future in which like I wanted to pursue a sexual relationship with a woman.

That's something that he can't give to me.

And so it falls under sort of like a different category.

So you asked, have I seen it work long term?

There are couples that I have had the pleasure of knowing or working with or being friends with for whom that really, really works.

Like polyamory, having relationships with multiple people,

It serves them.

They're not always open, necessarily.

Sometimes they have other relationships.

Sometimes they don't.

The couples that I see it really works for, they really prioritize the primary relationship.