Caitlin V
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Podcast Appearances
Where did you get that idea?
No, it's totally different.
I remember the first Playboy I found under my cousin's bed and being like, what is it?
My God, wow, this exists, right?
You're this close to it at all times.
Yeah.
I mean, you can, on a device, you're like three clicks away from the biggest repository of adult content ever made.
You know, remember like we didn't, just the same way that we didn't evolve to have access to like corn syrup and all of our food, we did not evolve to have access to erotic visuals all of the time.
I don't know that you ever fully do.
I think that the distinction there is like, does someone feel like they can have a healthy relationship with their own sexuality despite whatever they were exposed to early on?
And I think that's very doable for most people, but I totally agree with you.
I think that porn is amazing at doing certain things.
It can open our eyes to all kinds of erotic possibilities that we might not have discovered otherwise.
And those don't have to be like aggressive or violent.
That could be like, oh, I didn't even realize that like it turned me on to have like a, to have my mouth be covered because then I can't make any noise and then that part of my brain turns off and now I don't have to think while I'm having sex.
Like that's great.
You could learn that.
I wouldn't even say that's weird.
That's pretty run of the mill.
No, I remember there was a moment where we had a toy