Caleb Hammer

Mostly because I...

shame mostly oh off what a dumb excuse you're someone else's life potentially another with a kid shame you should be ashamed you hid that from your spouse your partner before making a child in marriage you should be ashamed that's what's shameful what i'm confused i mean do we just hide literally everything until after we're married is that how marriage works

Oh, so we're starting off with a bad marriage.

I wouldn't say that.

Well, you just defined a good marriage as not hiding things, and yet you were hiding that going into marriage, and now she's struggling to get accounts connected and whatnot with whatever limited resources you have in your community because of your finances.

Do we own a house?

No.

Okay, or do we want to own a house at some point?

Yes.

How's that going to happen with man with completely f***ing money of what you didn't know about that you were attaching yourself to?

The mortgage is only going to be in her name?

That's fair.

That's great.

That's wonderful.

Okay, but you lied about your finances getting with her.

Yeah.

Okay, so what was your reaction when you heard this?

Were you hiding them from him?

No.

So you knew about them going into the marriage?